If you are struggling to connect or communicate today's post is for you. I'm going to explain what I see and why so many are struggling. When I
“Should I suppress my feelings” – Mini post
I'm coaching this lady and she is confused. She says she has feelings that are real and she's concerned if she suppresses them this will be a
“I’ve lost feelings for my partner!”
So here is an interesting dilemma for this person they might not have considered. There is no question that this feeling is true for that person so
“Maybe you are incompatible!”
I have this question almost every day. They say "I worry we are incompatible" and my response is you might be, but what if you are only incompatible
“WHY couples won’t solve their problems!”
Who else wants to know why a couples problems feel perminent? Who wants to know why they keep hitting the same old brick wall? Who wants to know
Prediction = Security
If I were to sum up most couples' problems, it's in their inability to predict what will happen based on their actions, as a result, they live unsafe
“She wanted a divorce until..!”
So what has to change for a woman to be so convinced she wants a divorce? I was talking about wisdom a few days ago and here it is in
“She lost connection with herself”
If you are in a marriage where the love has died and living together is now transactional or being together is a struggle due to constant conflict
“I’m struggling to love you!”
What do you do when two people have a love for each other but have lost the ability to be in love with each other? It's very common for couples to
“The Fundamental Issue with Marriages!”
I'm going to keep this brief and some of you won't like it. We are all aware that something fundamental is going wrong with marriages as volumes of
Triggers and behavioural patterns
Who knew that to navigate love effectively and keep the passion alive we all have to become better at understanding human behaviour? People are
“A Thought for Sunday is Back”
I have decided to bring back a Thought for Sunday for those new to this blog I ran this on Sundays during COVID. This is a category where I would