One relationship model that almost guarantees failure is a trading relationship. It never works because love can't grow; intimacy will die as
Communicating with MEN – Mini Post
Many women come to me with connection problems with their husbands. She tells me she has communication problems with him. So I wanted to clarify
From Stephen Hedger to you…
Since I started writing this blog in 2010 my mission has always been to help people in relationship stress become curious about why their marriage is
“Divorce won’t solve this…” – Mini Post
Many people see divorce as a solution to their problems, but for most people, all it does is prolong the emotional and financial agony. As you scan
“He will remember it all forever!” – Mini Post
This tends to be a shocking realisation for her. One of the facts that tend to shock women in my sessions is when I explain that men do have amazing
“She never knew this was her job!” – Mini post
Most of the women who enter my sessions are looking for their partners to step up and take the actions they need for the relationship to make sense to
Leadership Skills for Relationships – Mini Post
The most successful relationships are driven by great leaders. They are successful because they have the skills to lead their relationship away from
What makes a good partner? – Mini post
The basics of being a good partner - The essence of a good relationship partner/spouse is someone who wants to contribute in a meaningful way to their
“Do you have good family values?” – Mini Post
This topic holds hidden power for each of us but I didn't start to understand this until I was 29 that was 28 years ago and even then it took a while
“Which man should she choose?” – Mini post
Two years ago a lady came to my session with a problem. She didn’t know which man to choose. This is not an isolated case which is why I wanted to
“Did you enjoy yourself?” – Mini Post
This is life-changing for the smart few - "Did you enjoy yourself?" A simple sentence we have all heard 1000s of times that could hold the key to the
The connection that kills passion – Mini post
There are two distinct relationship patterns - one works to keep the passion alive and one works to kill the couple's passion for each other. The