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Stephen Hedger

Stephen Hedger

Crisis Marriage Coach | Harley Street London

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Reigniting Attraction In Dead Relationships

The moment I teach the secrets to a powerful reconnection it opens the gateway to a very different relationship no matter where they started.

When the individuals rebuild the relationship on their own and couples practice exactly what I teach them a new level of connection is born.

I’m helping people from all walks of life understand what they did to kill it and why, I then share exactly what they must do to reignite it.

Any level of connection is energy-based and so the conundrum that couples face is managing both energies so they stay on the same path together connected.

Most people bring out the wrong energy in themselves in their quest to get to their goal. This will naturally kill the energy in their partner.

This means they won’t like the energy they feel when they are with their partner so they keep disconnecting.

Connection done well creates a foundation that frees emotional energy that makes relationships easy.

My mission is to give people a practical understanding of psychology (cause and effect) in the context of their relationship.

In essence, they learn an easy-to-implement framework that tells them exactly what to do and when.

To start with it creates emotional safety, but it creates it in a way that means feeling safe is no longer the person’s focus.

Relationships die when the need to feel safe is compounding.

By using this new reconnection skill they feel safer as a result of their connection rather than needing to look for safety elsewhere.

That shift alone dramatically changes their dynamic.

It needs understanding to be consistently successful.

It is learnable no special skill is required, I’ve made is as binary as possible. So when X happens do Y! It’s that easy.

This then paves the way for both people to feel cared for and understood.

This is important as many are disconnected too often for them to feel what they want to be happy.

This new level of thinking helps them avoid resentments and helps them to stack pleasure and attach those feelings to their partner.

Which is how it should be.

This creates a platform where conflict and challenges are easy to deal with as both people become a team to deal with them.

Individuals learn how to deal with conflict so they get the best out of themselves and their partners.

The compound effect of the above frees the energy that’s needed for intimacy on all levels to reignite.

This is because intimate and sexual connection needs emotional stability and critical needs to be met to keep it alive.

Without connecting in the way they need it this energy won’t ever spark.

Once you have all these levels of connection in place.

Now you can plan and design the final piece that makes your connection bulletproof.

Create a future reason for being together, that’s bigger than we love each other or the kids.

Many people use the wrong glue in their marriage and so when the kids leave home a marital crisis is common.

You see connection that covers all these areas helps people to feel amazing about themselves and so they naturally attach that feeling to their partner.

This is an ongoing compound effect where the needs that keep couples together are set in concrete.

I’ve seen so many couples who were in a terrible crisis practice this new process and they share their success with their friends and family.

I then see those family members and friends in my sessions looking for the same results.

I have parents buying this program for their grown-up children about to get married as a wedding present.

I’ve had people learning this process for their silver wedding anniversary as a present to themselves.

All this process needs is a commitment to yourselves.

Committing to yourself is the first step to wanting a better connection with yourself and with your partner.

If an individual is committed to themselves then I’m committed to helping them.

When a CEO in Vegas is happy to speak with me at 3:00 am his time, I know he is committed.

When a bus driver joins my program and tells me he has been saving to do this program this man is committed.

When the couple travel from Australia to attend sessions they are committed.

Hungry people find a way.

The people who keep relationships alive for life are the ones where nothing is more important than that relationship to them.

When I say nothing I mean nothing!

If nothing is more important than your relationship then you are easy to help.

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I’m not going to ask you how you “feel", pay me to watch you argue, or try to find the person to blame.

I am looking to discover if the couple can become a team, overcome their problems together and create a dynamic that will create a loving and passionate life together.

My approach is to take you from where you are, to where you want to be… fast!

I can not recommend Stephen highly enough – he not only saved our marriage, but has improved my marriage and myself as a person.

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Hi, I'm Stephen Hedger. I'm determined to help couples discover what their marriage is capable of with the right information. My only question is, will it be yours?

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A 30 minute call with Stephen

In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
Many thanks
Olivia

Dear Stephen
Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

Kind regards

Chipo

Success Stories

Client responds to testimonial

November 11, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

I’m working with this lady, and during the session, she wanted to comment on a testimonial another client had left. As you go through today post, you will see what she wanted to say. Before you get to her words, I want to set the context. I’m not quoting her word for word here, but […]

“I was in tears…” 

October 20, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

‘Initially I went to Stephen with a sole focus on saving my marriage as my husband wanted a divorce whilst I felt I could not let go of the 14 years’ relationship without giving it a second chance. My husband was determined to exit and refused to join the Marriage Breakthrough Programme with me, therefore […]

“Lawyer saves relationship alone”!

July 27, 2021 By Stephen Hedger

“I went to see Stephen when my relationship was at breaking point. The final trigger was my partner’s plan to sell his property and move in with me. We had until then a long-distance relationship and never spent more than about a month together (thanks to the COVID lockdown). I had finally moved to his […]

“It was like walking through a minefield blindfolded”

November 29, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

When relationships go wrong the pain can be unbelievable. Today’s post is about a couple whose relationship was quickly out of control and both people thought it was the end. When I first agreed to meet this couple she arrived first.  She was clearly very anxious, eyes darting, wringing hands, unsure if her husband would […]

One small shift changed her mind & saved her marriage – Part 2 of “Should divorce really be the next step?”

May 10, 2020 By Stephen Hedger

What sits at the core of the most successful marriages. What is it that makes the difference. What is it that helps couples stand the test of time? What is it that helps couples make it through all the ups and downs life has to throw at them? Is sex at the core for a […]

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Recent Posts

  • When a marriage breaks down – What do I do?
  • Marriage is a dance – A dance most couples kill
  • “We can’t find a way forward!”
  • Breaking unhealthy relationship patterns
  • Anyone that marries will have trouble!

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Any testimonials stated on this page or on any pages on the Stephen Hedger Marriage Coach website/s are proof of our success, naturally, results may vary from person to person.

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