The moment I teach the secrets to a powerful reconnection it opens the gateway to a very different relationship no matter where they started.
When the individuals rebuild the relationship on their own and couples practice exactly what I teach them a new level of connection is born.
I’m helping people from all walks of life understand what they did to kill it and why, I then share exactly what they must do to reignite it.
Any level of connection is energy-based and so the conundrum that couples face is managing both energies so they stay on the same path together connected.
Most people bring out the wrong energy in themselves in their quest to get to their goal. This will naturally kill the energy in their partner.
This means they won’t like the energy they feel when they are with their partner so they keep disconnecting.
Connection done well creates a foundation that frees emotional energy that makes relationships easy.
My mission is to give people a practical understanding of psychology (cause and effect) in the context of their relationship.
In essence, they learn an easy-to-implement framework that tells them exactly what to do and when.
To start with it creates emotional safety, but it creates it in a way that means feeling safe is no longer the person’s focus.
Relationships die when the need to feel safe is compounding.
By using this new reconnection skill they feel safer as a result of their connection rather than needing to look for safety elsewhere.
That shift alone dramatically changes their dynamic.
It needs understanding to be consistently successful.
It is learnable no special skill is required, I’ve made is as binary as possible. So when X happens do Y! It’s that easy.
This then paves the way for both people to feel cared for and understood.
This is important as many are disconnected too often for them to feel what they want to be happy.
This new level of thinking helps them avoid resentments and helps them to stack pleasure and attach those feelings to their partner.
Which is how it should be.
This creates a platform where conflict and challenges are easy to deal with as both people become a team to deal with them.
Individuals learn how to deal with conflict so they get the best out of themselves and their partners.
The compound effect of the above frees the energy that’s needed for intimacy on all levels to reignite.
This is because intimate and sexual connection needs emotional stability and critical needs to be met to keep it alive.
Without connecting in the way they need it this energy won’t ever spark.
Once you have all these levels of connection in place.
Now you can plan and design the final piece that makes your connection bulletproof.
Create a future reason for being together, that’s bigger than we love each other or the kids.
Many people use the wrong glue in their marriage and so when the kids leave home a marital crisis is common.
You see connection that covers all these areas helps people to feel amazing about themselves and so they naturally attach that feeling to their partner.
This is an ongoing compound effect where the needs that keep couples together are set in concrete.
I’ve seen so many couples who were in a terrible crisis practice this new process and they share their success with their friends and family.
I then see those family members and friends in my sessions looking for the same results.
I have parents buying this program for their grown-up children about to get married as a wedding present.
I’ve had people learning this process for their silver wedding anniversary as a present to themselves.
All this process needs is a commitment to yourselves.
Committing to yourself is the first step to wanting a better connection with yourself and with your partner.
If an individual is committed to themselves then I’m committed to helping them.
When a CEO in Vegas is happy to speak with me at 3:00 am his time, I know he is committed.
When a bus driver joins my program and tells me he has been saving to do this program this man is committed.
When the couple travel from Australia to attend sessions they are committed.
Hungry people find a way.
The people who keep relationships alive for life are the ones where nothing is more important than that relationship to them.
When I say nothing I mean nothing!