The fastest way to a better marriage is to change what you CAN control, not what you can't. If you have ever tried to change another human, you’ll
10 Steps for Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
“My Marriage is in trouble – What should I do?”
Are you waking up firmly connected with a sinking feeling that your marriage is in real danger? If so, I’m sure you are aware that you’re not
Is Divorce really the best solution?
Far too many couples are seeking divorce because they see it as a solution to an unhappy marriage. Divorce is a solution, but it isn't a solution
Divorce Alert: Most Couples Misdiagnose Their Problems
The majority of couples in crisis are trying to solve the wrong problem in their marriage, and it’s leading them into an unnecessary divorce. In
“Ego Living in Your Marriage?”
When a person's ego is engaged, relationship problems are never far away. A dominant ego can kill a couple's connection in several ways and won't make
“Normal healthy marriage? What on earth does that look like?”
What do you do when a couple has normalised their distorted dynamic and sits blaming each other for their problems? What do you do when each person
“There’s no hope in hell – I want a divorce!”
So what do you do when the trust is broken so badly that their relationship ends with them selling their family home and moving into separate
Successful men in unsuccessful marriages
So, one group of people I consistently deal with is professionally successful men who are unaware of how their natural way of being, which created
“Leave them!?”
You only get one life, so if you're in a painful relationship and suffering, of course, you can leave them, BUT!... And it’s a big but!!!
Mistake to avoid if you want to stop a divorce
In todays post I’ll share the one thing everyone that comes to see me is doing that’s almost guaranteed to make their relationship worse. The
“Destructive emotional patterns…”
The challenge we all face is that, on some level, we all have some unhelpful emotional patterns that we learned growing up. It's nothing to be