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What is running your mind and your relationship?

The moment I discovered that the secret to life, relationships and money was about alignment of the conscious and sub-conscious mind was the moment that changed my life.

The moment I discovered that the conscious mind was creative and yet is only present 5% of the time and the sub-conscious non-creative brain accounted for a massive 95% of our presence I was shocked.

The sub-conscious brains job is to activate our programming from pre-birth to 7 years old combined with our habits learnt after the age of 7, it’s job is to keep us safe from harm. Imagine our actions today being controlled by what was imprinted by parents, schools etc…

This shocked me into learning how to ensure both parts of my mind were taking me to a future I actually wanted. Most people have conscious goals that are physically sabotaged by sub-conscious programming from their childhoods and learnt behaviours since.

Why do you think weight loss is so hard the person is always in the conflict of 2 minds, conscious and subconscious.

Now imagine the conflict of 4 minds in a relationship. This is why couples start off in a loving creative relationships and end up in destructive ones as the creative mind is overpowered by the powerful programming in our subconscious mind.

This is what couples learn with me to not only overcome their problems, but to create a successful future together.

You see, how our minds are focused actually create chemicals in our minds and bodies that either grow, or destroy our relationships and if we are only controlling 5% of what can build a successful relationship (conscious mind) then it’s easy to understand why so many couples struggle.

No one sets out to destroy their relationship, but there are very powerful factors at play that most couples are blind to as they destroy their own bonding chemicals without realising.

Rebuilding relationships is easy if your curious enough and doesn’t need to take lots of time. If you are interested to learn more contact Cloe today and she will start the ball rolling for you.

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Stephen Hedger
Stephen Hedger
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Harley Street Expert | Founder & High Performance Coach

With two decades of experience helping couples out of crisis, Stephen the founder of The Marriage Breakthrough Program, uses his proven system for rescuing and rebuilding relationships on the edge of divorce. A trusted advisor to CEOs, entrepreneurs, and industry leaders globally, his work blends emotional intelligence with strategic clarity. Known for navigating highly complex relationship challenges, Stephen helps individuals and couples find clarity and direction when everything is at stake.

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I’m not going to ask you how you “feel", pay me to watch you argue, or try to find the person to blame.

I am looking to discover if the couple can become a team, overcome their problems together and create a dynamic that will create a loving and passionate life together.

My approach is to take you from where you are, to where you want to be… fast!

I can not recommend Stephen highly enough – he not only saved our marriage, but has improved my marriage and myself as a person.

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In a short phone conversation, Stephen was able to quickly get to the heart of what the real issue was in our marriage – and why in almost a year of working on our marriage including 10 weeks of marriage counselling through a relationship therapy organisation, we weren’t really making any progress. I found Stephen to be extremely perceptive, as well as empathetic to our situation, while being able to quickly pinpoint the real sticking point in our marriage.
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Thank you for your time to listen to my experience in my marriage. You gave me encouragement to speak out to my partner in confidence. You made me realise that sometimes the way we make comments on each other can aggravate the situation and make it worse. Your advice made me feel revived.

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Success Stories

Case Study: She Was a Trained Counsellor. But Knowing What Was Wrong Wasn’t Saving Their Marriage

July 31, 2026 By Stephen Hedger

How Richard and Claire moved from preparing for separation to becoming a team against the pattern damaging their family. Richard and Claire’s names have been changed to protect their privacy. This Case Study at a Glance Clients: Married couple with two children. Claire was a trained counsellor. Starting position: Trust had almost disappeared. They were caught in […]

Case Study: She Didn’t Fall Out of Love. She Stopped Recognising Herself.

July 28, 2026 By Stephen Hedger

The hidden reason behind a six-year affair – and why the affair was never the real problem. Quick Summary Clients: David (53) and Claire (50) Married: 28 years Together since: Their teenage years Children: Two Challenge: Claire had been having an affair for six years. David believed the affair had destroyed their marriage. Claire insisted she still loved her husband […]

Case Study: They Thought They Were Arguing About the Little Things. They Weren’t.

July 25, 2026 By Stephen Hedger

How one couple stopped constant bickering when they discovered the expectations hiding underneath it Names and identifying details have been changed. By the time Mark and Rachel came to see me, they were exhausted with each other. They weren’t having enormous arguments about affairs, money or whether to stay married. They were arguing about the […]

Case Study: Her Husband Was Preparing to Move Out. So She Stopped Waiting for Him to Change.

July 21, 2026 By Stephen Hedger

Can one person begin changing a marriage when their partner is no longer convinced it can be saved? This clients story shows what happened when one woman stopped trying to persuade her husband and began changing the part of the relationship she could influence. Quick Summary ClientsA professional couple, married for approximately seven years. ChallengeHer […]

Case Study: He Built a Life for His Family. He Also Taught His Wife How to Live Without Him.

July 17, 2026 By Stephen Hedger

When James finally made his marriage a priority, Emma had already learned not to rely on him. When James began coming home earlier, he expected Emma to be pleased. Years before, she had repeatedly asked him to spend less time at work. Now he was protecting his evenings, turning down calls and making more time […]

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Recent Posts

  • “Your Partner Is the Problem and Needs to Change”
  • 30 Self-Protection Patterns Designed to Destroy Your Marriage
  • Case Study: She Was a Trained Counsellor. But Knowing What Was Wrong Wasn’t Saving Their Marriage
  • Case Study: She Didn’t Fall Out of Love. She Stopped Recognising Herself.
  • Case Study: They Thought They Were Arguing About the Little Things. They Weren’t.

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