The difference between men and women is compounded in intimate relationships and is why so many couples are suffering. No one told us the rules of
“We have nothing in common!”
At least once a week, someone will tell me "We have nothing in common!" They are usually looking to stack their reasons for why the relationship isn't
“Unsolicited Advice in Relationships…”
The impact of this problem isn't good at all. I see many couples where one person has given themselves the role of coach. It usually happens when
“I feel so disrespected!”
I was sat in a coffee shop sipping coffee and enjoying a slice of homemade cake. Cloe (my wife) was browsing their goods for sale, I sat peacefully
Couples are repelling each other constantly.
Women are wanting a better connection yet her behaviours repel him, men want more sexual connections unaware he is killing her desire to see him as
“How WIVES are helping HUSBANDS to reject them!”
Today's post is about what men are telling me every day that helps them to want to leave her. In many cases, she has no idea this is how he
“Sexual Attraction”
So how do you keep that important energy in a relationship alive year after year? Yesterday's post told a story of how he can kill her sexual desire,
How he kills her sexual desire!
So this gentleman turns up in a session and, for ten minutes, lists all the awful qualities about his wife; here is a sample of this
“We never have to worry about our relationship problems again!”
The short version of yesterday's post is this. If a person's thinking is leading them to constantly disconnect from who they are in their
Life by design – The ultimate formula for married couples
Today is about "life by design". It's the process of designing and creating your relationship and life the way it should be. It's the starting
The Warrior & The Princess
When couples don't understand that the other person cannot see the world the same as they do, they assume the other is being difficult, mean or
“He told her she was too fat!”
When working with couples in crisis you are going to see a lot of distorted behaviours and after nearly 20 years of doing this, I have seen and heard