I have this question almost every day. They say "I worry we are incompatible" and my response is you might be, but what if you are only incompatible
“WHY couples won’t solve their problems!”
Who else wants to know why a couples problems feel perminent? Who wants to know why they keep hitting the same old brick wall? Who wants to know
Prediction = Security
If I were to sum up most couples' problems, it's in their inability to predict what will happen based on their actions, as a result, they live unsafe
“She wanted a divorce until..!”
So what has to change for a woman to be so convinced she wants a divorce? I was talking about wisdom a few days ago and here it is in
“She lost connection with herself”
If you are in a marriage where the love has died and living together is now transactional or being together is a struggle due to constant conflict
“I’m struggling to love you!”
What do you do when two people have a love for each other but have lost the ability to be in love with each other? It's very common for couples to
“The Fundamental Issue with Marriages!”
I'm going to keep this brief and some of you won't like it. We are all aware that something fundamental is going wrong with marriages as volumes of
Triggers and behavioural patterns
Who knew that to navigate love effectively and keep the passion alive we all have to become better at understanding human behaviour? People are
Step 1: Fast Solution to Marriage Problems – Mini Post
I don't know about you, but personally, I'm a fan of making life easy whenever possible. I don't want to wade through a 90-page manual to solve a
“The Marital Death Spiral”
They are in a power struggle mainly due to hidden unmet needs. Both are feeling the other doesn't care but neither is really wanting the relationship
Healing from an affair
This gentleman had just found out his wife was guilty of another infidelity and was now at the end of the road. He had tried to forgive her before,
I’m Stuck – I can’t stay and I can’t go
What does a person do when they are stuck in a life where no matter what decision they make the outcome is always unpleasant? Many people come to








