Today is about "life by design". It's the process of designing and creating your relationship and life the way it should be. It's the starting
The Warrior & The Princess
When couples don't understand that the other person cannot see the world the same as they do, they assume the other is being difficult, mean or
“He told her she was too fat!”
When working with couples in crisis you are going to see a lot of distorted behaviours and after nearly 20 years of doing this, I have seen and heard
How Emotional Patterns Destroy Marriages
The challenge we all face is on some level we all have some kind of unhelpful pattern that we learned growing up. It's nothing to be ashamed
NEVER let your partner enter a “CRITICAL NEEDS DEFICIT!” – Mini post
Who knew each person on a planet is driven by different and very specific emotional needs? When these needs are not met couples will always experience
“The Path from Happiness to Divorce”
Who knew there is a well-defined path couples will follow from their first meeting and falling in love to ending up divorced! In fact, many couples
“Why do you feel qualified to be his judge?” – Mini Post
It's rare I allow a couple to engage in conflict in my sessions. I don't see the point in them paying me to watch them argue, they can do that at home
“Her husband is suffering and she is unaware!”
Yesterday I shared a post about how women in marriages are suffering, but of course, it's only half the story. Men are suffering too, but women are
Women are struggling, but men don’t understand why – Mini Post
I have had hundreds of sessions where a lady in a session is sharing her upset and the man is totally confused as to why she would feel this
What will break the connection? – Mini Post
"We don't have fun, I don't feel that I matter, we bicker all the time and to top that we have nothing exciting interesting and fulfilling to look
Knowledge isn’t power – but it’s a start – Mini Post
I spend most of my time teaching very bright people how to understand their relationship and their partner's behaviours and words. One of the
Stop bickering and arguing – Mini Post
Arguing is really a power struggle between two people who are forcefully wanting the other person to see things their way. If you looked at it from