Yesterday I shared a post about how women in marriages are suffering, but of course, it's only half the story. Men are suffering too, but women are
Women are struggling, but men don’t understand why – Mini Post
I have had hundreds of sessions where a lady in a session is sharing her upset and the man is totally confused as to why she would feel this
What will break the connection? – Mini Post
"We don't have fun, I don't feel that I matter, we bicker all the time and to top that we have nothing exciting interesting and fulfilling to look
Knowledge isn’t power – but it’s a start – Mini Post
I spend most of my time teaching very bright people how to understand their relationship and their partner's behaviours and words. One of the
Stop bickering and arguing – Mini Post
Arguing is really a power struggle between two people who are forcefully wanting the other person to see things their way. If you looked at it from
“Why your marriage may not be broken”
Many people wrongly assume their marriage is over, so today I’m going to share something important with you. Too many people are struggling to see
“Never try to change your partner”
I'm going to share why trying to change your partner is likely to kill your connection, your attraction for each other and negatively affect your sex
Retired couple in crisis “We should know better at our age!”
So I was speaking with this lady about her marital problems. She was just over 60 and her husband a retired CEO told her he was planning to leave
“What I’m looking for is not out there, it is in me…”
This quote by Helen Keller has such an important meaning to me and what I have to do to help others. You see the process of helping people back to
“An expert would have predicted their future problems”
What's always so sad is the volume of people who come to me with problems that could have been averted very simply many years before. The question
“What’s the meaning of this”?
One of the fundamental skills that are lacking in almost every client I see is the ability to attach an accurate meaning to their partner's words and
Advice for Controlling Relationships
A consistent theme I see with couples in crisis who are struggling to keep their relationship healthy is when one or both people feel the need to