"We don't have fun, I don't feel that I matter, we bicker all the time and to top that we have nothing exciting interesting and fulfilling to look
Knowledge isn’t power – but it’s a start – Mini Post
I spend most of my time teaching very bright people how to understand their relationship and their partner's behaviours and words. One of the
Stop bickering and arguing – Mini Post
Arguing is really a power struggle between two people who are forcefully wanting the other person to see things their way. If you looked at it from
“Never attach your meanings to your partner’s words and actions!” – Mini Post
One of the fastest ways to spark conflict is to assume the meaning you are attaching to your partners' words is the right meaning. I remember
“Living with a problem partner” – Mini post
If anyone wants to have a successful lasting marriage then a person's relationship with themselves is critical to master before they can ever be
“Never be a dream killer” – Mini Post
With only one life, everyone deserves to live their dream or at least have a go. One of the challenges is when a partner wants to block that dream
“STOP making YOUR partners upset about YOU!”
One of the most common patterns is when one person becomes upset and the other becomes upset because they are upset. This kind of
“Never try to change your partner”
I'm going to share why trying to change your partner is likely to kill your connection, your attraction for each other and negatively affect your sex
Never make anything more important than your partner – Mini Post
When anything becomes more important than your partner problems will never be far away. Too many relationships are stressed because a husband or a
Never Ignore Your Partner’s Cry for Help – Mini Post
I remember as a child, in my first ever game of hide and seek, I closed my eyes because I thought if I couldn't see them, they won't be able to see
“What’s wrong with you!?” Mini Post
I have seen so many couples come into sessions with a belief about their partners' reaction to a situation, they tell me it was clearly ridiculous,
“If you loved me you’d know…” – Mini Post
"If you loved me you'd know" I have heard this in sessions so many times and it's a significant problem for those couples. I have to STOP people