This gentleman had just found out his wife was guilty of another infidelity and was now at the end of the road. He had tried to forgive her before,
Loss of Love? How to Save Your Relationship
Today’s post explores practical advice—what to do and what not to do—when facing the loss of emotional connection in your relationship. If your
Passionless Marriage: “Sex life dying – want to know why?”
One of the most common issues couples face is the loss of passion. If you’re in a passionless marriage, I’m going to share the most common causes and
Coping with an Affair: How to Rebuild Trust and Save Your Marriage
If your marriage is in crisis due to an affair, coping with the emotional fallout can feel overwhelming. Learning the steps to rebuild trust while
“She wants to leave the marriage”
So many men come to me totally confused. His wife has communicated that she doesn't love him and wants out of the marriage, and this time, she means
“He wants to leave the marriage”
Your husband has told you he wants out, he's fallen out of love, he might have suggested a separation or maybe he has left and you want to win him
Too Many People Regret Divorcing Once the Dust has Settled
Very sad divorce regret story that changed her whole life and the life of her child, who had no say in her mistake; she said to me, "...but I'm
10 Steps for Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
Is Divorce really the best solution?
Far too many couples are seeking divorce because they see it as a solution to an unhappy marriage. Divorce is a solution, but it isn't a solution
Women are struggling, but men don’t understand why – Mini Post
I have had hundreds of sessions where a lady in a session is sharing her upset and the man is totally confused as to why she would feel this
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
Relationship triggers are killing couple’s connection!
Many couples find themselves in the same old behavioural patterns that end up frustrating both people. Life together will be teaching them they are
Helping men understand their wives
A significant problem that is presented to me over and over again is the very obvious disconnect between men and women and their interpretation of
Case Study: Her Husband Was Preparing to Move Out. So She Stopped Waiting for Him to Change.
Can one person begin changing a marriage when their partner is no longer convinced it can be saved? This clients story shows what happened when one
Case Study: He Built a Life for His Family. He Also Taught His Wife How to Live Without Him.
When James finally made his marriage a priority, Emma had already learned not to rely on him. When James began coming home earlier, he expected
Case Study: “We Thought We Had a Communication Problem. We Didn’t.”
Most Couples Are Solving the Wrong Problem Without Realising For years, James and Rebecca believed they had a communication problem. Every
Case Study: How a Successful Couple Rediscovered Their Marriage After Feeling Like Roommates for Five Years
Quick Summary ClientsDavid (52), Managing DirectorSarah (49), Business Consultant ChallengeAfter years of emotional distance, growing resentment
Case Study: She Wanted Every Detail of his Affair.
Quick Summary ClientsOliver, 52, founder of a property investment businessHelen, 49, senior barrister ChallengeHelen discovered Oliver had been
Case Study: How a CEO and His Wife on the Verge of Divorce Found Their Way Back
Quick Summary Clients: June (42) & Michael (48) Background: Michael was the CEO of a successful business. June had dedicated
Self-Protection Is Quietly Destroying Your Marriage
The biggest threat to your marriage isn't what most people think. It's the moment the need for self-protection becomes more important than
The Moment Your Marriage Becomes About “Me”, The Connection Starts to Die…
Relationships begin to fail when the focus shifts from "us" to "me." Instead of working together against the problem, couples start demanding that
Signs Your Marriage Needs Professional Help: When to Seek Coaching
Most marriages fail because two people keep repeating patterns they do not understand. Not seeing those patterns combined with not understand how
The Worst Ways to Save or Rebuild a Marriage
When people realise they might lose their marriage, they often become highly motivated to save it. Unfortunately, that motivation can lead them to
What Is Incompatibility in a Marriage?
Many people believe incompatibility simply means two people are different. But all successful marriages contain differences in personality,
How You Think – Designs Where You End Up
Many people either lose a marriage they wanted to keep, stay in a relationship that is unhealthy, or build a life that will never truly make them