This gentleman had just found out his wife was guilty of another infidelity and was now at the end of the road. He had tried to forgive her before,
Loss of Love? How to Save Your Relationship
Today’s post explores practical advice—what to do and what not to do—when facing the loss of emotional connection in your relationship. If your
Passionless Marriage: “Sex life dying – want to know why?”
One of the most common issues couples face is the loss of passion. If you’re in a passionless marriage, I’m going to share the most common causes and
Coping with an Affair: How to Rebuild Trust and Save Your Marriage
If your marriage is in crisis due to an affair, coping with the emotional fallout can feel overwhelming. Learning the steps to rebuild trust while
“She wants to leave the marriage”
So many men come to me totally confused. His wife has communicated that she doesn't love him and wants out of the marriage, and this time, she means
“He wants to leave the marriage”
Your husband has told you he wants out, he's fallen out of love, he might have suggested a separation or maybe he has left and you want to win him
Too Many People Regret Divorcing Once the Dust has Settled
Very sad divorce regret story that changed her whole life and the life of her child, who had no say in her mistake; she said to me, "...but I'm
10 Steps for Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
Is Divorce really the best solution?
Far too many couples are seeking divorce because they see it as a solution to an unhappy marriage. Divorce is a solution, but it isn't a solution
Women are struggling, but men don’t understand why – Mini Post
I have had hundreds of sessions where a lady in a session is sharing her upset and the man is totally confused as to why she would feel this
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
Relationship triggers are killing couple’s connection!
Many couples find themselves in the same old behavioural patterns that end up frustrating both people. Life together will be teaching them they are
Helping men understand their wives
A significant problem that is presented to me over and over again is the very obvious disconnect between men and women and their interpretation of
“I’ve lost my feelings”
“I’ve lost my feelings” rarely means love is gone, it usually means your nervous system, identity, and story have adapted to long-term
The Identity Shift That Saved His Marriage
He came to me weighed down with questions about his marriage. On the surface, he had it all together, a career he loved, financial stability. The
The Real Reason Marriages Struggle: And the Skill No One Teaches You
Most people think marriage is about love, compatibility, or finding the “right person.” But here’s the reality few ever talk about: What is being
The Paradox of Blame: The Comfort That Can Quietly Sabotage & Damage Connection
I don’t know about you, but personally, I like to find ways to make life easier. One of the simplest shifts I share with clients is to look at
How She Reset 5 Years of Disconnection
She was 55 had been with her partner 58 for 5 years. For most of their relationship, they lived long-distance, weeks apart, then brief reunions.
Why Communication Isn’t Your Marriage Problem (And What Really Is)
Ask any couple in crisis what their biggest challenge is and the answer is almost always the same: “We just can’t communicate.” On the surface,
“The Untold Truth About Marriage: It Rises or Falls With Who Shows Up Each Day”
1. The Universal Desire for Change It’s almost universal: when couples hit struggles, their first thought is, “If only my partner would
How to Get the Feelings Back in a Marriage
When people say, “I’ve lost feelings,” it can feel final, like love has died and there’s no way back.But here’s the truth: feelings don’t
5 Dangerous Myths That Make Marital Crisis Worse
When a marriage is in crisis, every move counts. The wrong step can push your partner further away.The right step can create the first flicker of
My husband is shutting down
What do you do when the more your try to get through to your husband the more he either retreats or blows up. Today's post is about a lady who came
What Guarantees Marital Failure
After studying over 5000+ applications for my help over 20 years there is one standout problem that far too many individuals and couples become
“I’m Having an Affair – But I Don’t Want to Lose My Wife”
Back in 2017, I sat across from a successful company owner. To the outside world, he had it all — money, a thriving business, a long-term marriage,