This gentleman had just found out his wife was guilty of another infidelity and was now at the end of the road. He had tried to forgive her before,
Loss of Love? How to Save Your Relationship
Today’s post explores practical advice—what to do and what not to do—when facing the loss of emotional connection in your relationship. If your
Passionless Marriage: “Sex life dying – want to know why?”
One of the most common issues couples face is the loss of passion. If you’re in a passionless marriage, I’m going to share the most common causes and
Coping with an Affair: How to Rebuild Trust and Save Your Marriage
If your marriage is in crisis due to an affair, coping with the emotional fallout can feel overwhelming. Learning the steps to rebuild trust while
“She wants to leave the marriage”
So many men come to me totally confused. His wife has communicated that she doesn't love him and wants out of the marriage, and this time, she means
“He wants to leave the marriage”
Your husband has told you he wants out, he's fallen out of love, he might have suggested a separation or maybe he has left and you want to win him
Too Many People Regret Divorcing Once the Dust has Settled
Very sad divorce regret story that changed her whole life and the life of her child, who had no say in her mistake; she said to me, "...but I'm
10 Steps for Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
Is Divorce really the best solution?
Far too many couples are seeking divorce because they see it as a solution to an unhappy marriage. Divorce is a solution, but it isn't a solution
Women are struggling, but men don’t understand why – Mini Post
I have had hundreds of sessions where a lady in a session is sharing her upset and the man is totally confused as to why she would feel this
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
Relationship triggers are killing couple’s connection!
Many couples find themselves in the same old behavioural patterns that end up frustrating both people. Life together will be teaching them they are
Helping men understand their wives
A significant problem that is presented to me over and over again is the very obvious disconnect between men and women and their interpretation of
“I was planning our separation and divorce”
We appointed Stephen when our marriage was in crisis. I had started planning our separation and divorce following on from discovering my husband's
5 Ways Smart Couples Go Emotionally Broke
If your marriage feels stuck, distant, or harder than it should be, what you’re about to read will make everything finally make sense. Most couples
Case Study – “My journey to peace and looking forward to the future”
When your relationship with yourself is fractured, every relationship you enter will reflect that fracture. This woman faced years of hidden pain
“Most Couples Aren’t Broken – They’re Just Lost.”
After two decades helping couples on the edge of collapse, I’ve learned something that changes everything: most couples aren’t broken - they’re
“After 39 years, we finally stopped the cycle we thought we’d never escape.”
Stephen’s Marriage Breakthrough Program is designed to end conflict fast, rebuild safety, and live in the best part of our marriage without therapy or
Ask Stephen: “When Communication Stops: How to Lead When Your Partner Shuts Down”
This is the first "Ask Stephen" where a relationship question has been submitted and Stephen has applied his 20 years of working with couples in
Disconnected for over 20 years…
What do you do when your marriage has been disconnected over 20 years, when you have tried many kinds of help without success. Do you give up or
*NEW* – Ask Stephen
Most people are trying to fix their marriage by guessing what’s wrong.They’re reading tips, watching reels, and hoping something will land.But without
How can we tell if we are heading for divorce?
I see a significant amount of people who are shocked their partner actually wants to divorce them. They never believed it would actually happen, some
Four Couples. Four Turning Points. One Common Truth.
Every couple who arrives at my door is different, but the story beneath the surface is often the same: two people lost in patterns they don’t
What Type of Couple Are You?
Every couple has problems. Yet many people believe that problems in a relationship are a sign something is wrong, or even a signal the relationship
How Couples Transformed Their Marriages with the 5C Marriage Blueprint
Every couple faces challenges, from losing intimacy, to constant conflict, to the fear of separation. What matters most is not the problems, but how