This gentleman had just found out his wife was guilty of another infidelity and was now at the end of the road. He had tried to forgive her before,
Loss of Love? How to Save Your Relationship
Today’s post explores practical advice—what to do and what not to do—when facing the loss of emotional connection in your relationship. If your
Passionless Marriage: “Sex life dying – want to know why?”
One of the most common issues couples face is the loss of passion. If you’re in a passionless marriage, I’m going to share the most common causes and
Coping with an Affair: How to Rebuild Trust and Save Your Marriage
If your marriage is in crisis due to an affair, coping with the emotional fallout can feel overwhelming. Learning the steps to rebuild trust while
“She wants to leave the marriage”
So many men come to me totally confused. His wife has communicated that she doesn't love him and wants out of the marriage, and this time, she means
“He wants to leave the marriage”
Your husband has told you he wants out, he's fallen out of love, he might have suggested a separation or maybe he has left and you want to win him
Too Many People Regret Divorcing Once the Dust has Settled
Very sad divorce regret story that changed her whole life and the life of her child, who had no say in her mistake; she said to me, "...but I'm
10 Steps for Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
Is Divorce really the best solution?
Far too many couples are seeking divorce because they see it as a solution to an unhappy marriage. Divorce is a solution, but it isn't a solution
Women are struggling, but men don’t understand why – Mini Post
I have had hundreds of sessions where a lady in a session is sharing her upset and the man is totally confused as to why she would feel this
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
Relationship triggers are killing couple’s connection!
Many couples find themselves in the same old behavioural patterns that end up frustrating both people. Life together will be teaching them they are
Helping men understand their wives
A significant problem that is presented to me over and over again is the very obvious disconnect between men and women and their interpretation of
Four Couples. Four Turning Points. One Common Truth.
Every couple who arrives at my door is different, but the story beneath the surface is often the same: two people lost in patterns they don’t
What Type of Couple Are You?
Every couple has problems. Yet many people believe that problems in a relationship are a sign something is wrong, or even a signal the relationship
How Couples Transformed Their Marriages with the 5C Marriage Blueprint
Every couple faces challenges, from losing intimacy, to constant conflict, to the fear of separation. What matters most is not the problems, but how
The Character Test…
Who are you when the storm hits, who do you become? Life has a way of testing us, not when things are smooth, but when they break. The truth is,
Pain Is Inevitable but…
Pain is inevitable. The key to life is who you choose to become when that pain strikes. It could be the moment you hear your partner say, “I don’t
“I’ve lost my feelings”
“I’ve lost my feelings” rarely means love is gone, it usually means your nervous system, identity, and story have adapted to long-term
The Identity Shift That Saved His Marriage
He came to me weighed down with questions about his marriage. On the surface, he had it all together, a career he loved, financial stability. The
The Real Reason Marriages Struggle: And the Skill No One Teaches You
Most people think marriage is about love, compatibility, or finding the “right person.” But here’s the reality few ever talk about: What is being
The Paradox of Blame: The Comfort That Can Quietly Sabotage & Damage Connection
I don’t know about you, but personally, I like to find ways to make life easier. One of the simplest shifts I share with clients is to look at
How She Reset 5 Years of Disconnection
She was 55 had been with her partner 58 for 5 years. For most of their relationship, they lived long-distance, weeks apart, then brief reunions.
Why Communication Isn’t Your Marriage Problem (And What Really Is)
Ask any couple in crisis what their biggest challenge is and the answer is almost always the same: “We just can’t communicate.” On the surface,
“The Untold Truth About Marriage: It Rises or Falls With Who Shows Up Each Day”
1. The Universal Desire for Change It’s almost universal: when couples hit struggles, their first thought is, “If only my partner would