I sit at the sharp end of marital crisis every day. I see first hand what everyone is doing that’s leading them to divorce. Far too many have no idea
What does a healthy relationship look like?
So many people are living in dysfunctional relationships and have no idea it’s unhealthy for them. So in today's post, I'm going to take you through
People that blame others for how they feel
No one has the ability to MAKE someone feel a certain way. Or put another way, no one can run into someone's brain and create a feeling for them. If
“His emotions were sabotaging what he really wanted…”
What you are about to read is about is a gentleman in turmoil. He thought he had lost the girl he loved and his one-year-old son. She had left him
10 Critical Rules For Saving A Marriage From Divorce
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
How Do You Know Your Relationship Is Over?
Some people are staying in broken relationships for far too long they spend years fearful to put their hand up and share they are genuinely
“The cost of always needing to being right in a marriage!”
Every couple that attends sessions with me are sharing very different perspectives about their relationship, and both people think their version is
“Emotionally unavailable partner”
I see many couples where one person has become emotionally unavailable in the relationship. The effects are incredibly damaging to the relationship as
“I was so embarrassed…”
One of the common traits of marriages that don’t last is when the couple stops being a team that’s creating a purposeful and exciting life
Love is not a certainty
So many people become unstuck in their relationships because they are trying to make love a certainty. Love isn’t something you can force or
My partner wants to leave me!
Many people who are convinced they must leave their partner find themselves regretting that decision, so I wanted to share a new perspective to
Patterns that crush peoples lives
In today's post, I’m going to share some of the hidden behavioural patterns that can feel to the individual like critical protection, but in