I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
How Do You Know Your Relationship Is Over?
Some people are staying in broken relationships for far too long they spend years fearful to put their hand up and share they are genuinely
“The cost of always needing to being right in a marriage!”
Every couple that attends sessions with me are sharing very different perspectives about their relationship, and both people think their version is
“Emotionally unavailable partner”
I see many couples where one person has become emotionally unavailable in the relationship. The effects are incredibly damaging to the relationship as
“I was so embarrassed…”
One of the common traits of marriages that don’t last is when the couple stops being a team that’s creating a purposeful and exciting life
Love is not a certainty
So many people become unstuck in their relationships because they are trying to make love a certainty. Love isn’t something you can force or
My partner wants to leave me!
Many people who are convinced they must leave their partner find themselves regretting that decision, so I wanted to share a new perspective to
Patterns that crush peoples lives
In today's post, I’m going to share some of the hidden behavioural patterns that can feel to the individual like critical protection, but in
Your partner is not like you – At all!
One of the biggest mistakes I see people in relationships make is they don’t take the time to really understand their partner. Many are under the
Keeping their passion for each other alive
I was working with a couple, and the topic of motorbikes came up. This lady quickly commented that she wouldn’t let him have one! He sat sad and
You’ll need tools to save a marriage
Year after year, I’ve been studying the many hidden destructive patterns couples are using to take them into a marital crisis. I have studied this so
My partner doesn’t want to fix the marriage
One of the reasons couples in crisis struggle to reconnect is because they have not acted quick enough and are either now full of confusing and
