What do you do when one person is so affected by their past they are making the relationship unbearable to be in? Some people shut down secretly
Getting over an affair
Can a relationship survive an affair? Should they be given a second chance? Is it sensible to continue, or is it an act of madness, setting yourself
Why talking about relationship problems doesn’t work!
In today's post, I’m going to share exactly why couples who try to talk about their problems discover this process isn’t working for them. I know many
Breaking Out of Old Marital Conflicts
Many couples are suffering due to on-going patterns of circular conflicts that never end well. These types of situations are not just exhausting; they
One small shift changed her mind & saved her marriage – Part 2 of “Should divorce really be the next step?”
What sits at the core of the most successful marriages. What is it that makes the difference. What is it that helps couples stand the test of time?
Should divorce really be the next step?
What are you supposed to do when for years your marriage has been going nowhere? You’ve tried all you can, you’re exhausted and the thought of the
“The blame game – dealing with conflict”
One of the most common patterns couples get into is the blame and defend pattern. This is a pattern where one person is sharing their perspective
What Does A Healthy Relationship Look Like?
After spending significant time with so many struggling couples I can see that far too many people are not understanding what a healthy relationship
Why divorce is not the right solution for many couples
Couples being forced to be together 24/7 during this difficult time will create stress for many because it will magnify what’s wrong in their
3 Steps to Emotionally Reset & Build the Life YOU want
Mark Twain — 'I've had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened.’ Many years ago I came across this quote and it had a profound
“Please don’t panic?”
Don’t panic is a message I give all my clients whilst I help them understand their crisis to the point they can make an intelligent decision about
“How does love die?”
So many couples are struggling to understand how the love they once shared has changed and they are now edging towards divorce. Many of these couples





