What are we all taught growing up? If we do something bad or something against the law, or against the rules, we will be punished. It starts
My partner won’t let me forget the past
Why is it some people struggle to let go of the past? Are they bad partners are they being difficult? Do they want your life together to be
“Don’t tell me what I mean!”
What do you do when your partner has a habit of changing your words and your meanings in conversations and then makes you responsible for their
Does their pain matter?
So I asked this gentleman to help me with two scenarios. The first scenario was his wife was in the home upset shouting bad words at him. I
“It’s like watching two kids squabbling”
There are many occasions when I’ve see grown adults squabbling like a couple of kids, all red-faced, puffed up, and trying to be right. These
The cost of NOT hearing a cry for help
What do you do when one person says the relationship is not working and they need help and the other says there is nothing wrong with it and they are
Effective communication for couples…
One of the biggest problems that couples face is in their inability to communicate in a way that creates a foundational emotional connection. So
We are never on the same page?
When couples fall in love there comes a point of shock when they realise how differently their partner thinks about critical elements of their life
Arguments, Circular Conflicts, Bickering…
This couple walks into my office they sit down and proudly tell me they never argue. For some reason, they think this has been good for their
Relationship Secrets: The Biggest Relationship Problem
In today's post, I’m going to share the biggest relationship problem that couples will experience and is a must to understand if a successful
Mastering marital conflicts & communication problems
If you want your marriage to work then it's critical to get on the same page with this. If we understand the individual words our partner speak why do