Today is a short story about how the sexes communicate very differently and how the disconnect can cause upset that can grow out of control. I'm
Communication problems
"What do you actually hear when I speak?" A message from a frustrated husband. Communication is complex because each person will use very different
“I wished I’d never married you!!!”
I'm sat with a couple and they are describing an argument that sparked in her an uncontrollable rage. The gentleman told me his wife ended up
What happens next?
A husband and his wife are in a car driving down the motorway, the husband is the one driving. The wife see's a sign saying motorway
Why is our love dying?
Couples are struggling to understand how the love they once shared has changed and they are now edging towards separation or divorce. Many of
5 Steps to Repair an Emotional Connection
Imagine this: I have two people who come to me with one core problem. They both agree they have emotional connection problems. So if they agree
“My partner doesn’t fulfill my emotional needs…”
It's a typical message I receive in my sessions and it creates significant pain and suffering for that individual. There are a few parts to this
Punishing our partners…
What are we all taught growing up? If we do something bad or something against the law, or against the rules, we will be punished. It starts
My partner won’t let me forget the past
Why is it some people struggle to let go of the past? Are they bad partners are they being difficult? Do they want your life together to be