Have you ever heard the concept that your thoughts are not you? In yesterdays "Thought for Sunday" post, I posed the thought there are times in our
Conflict – Language Patterns
Have you ever wondered why couples in intimate relationships struggle to understand each other, especially when things start to go wrong? Some
Is stress a killer?
Many years ago, they considered stress to be a killer; what they discovered was really important and can positively affect your marriage. It wasn't
“Crippling Conflicts”
It is critical to understand the steps that resolve conflict because, left alone, the process of couples constantly at war is highly
“The Reset”
What a lot of couples need is to RESET their marriage. We know the dynamic many create can give them the idea they might be incompatible. When
“Cost of Controlling Behaviour”!
I meet so many people that are trying all kinds of creative ways to control their partner. Most people control their partner through some kind of
“Two sides to every story”!
One of the most common challenges couples face is when they share their problems both people will have very different stories. On the one hand, I
Living The Victim Story
So what do you do when a person is having marriage problems due to them living the story they tell themselves about their marriage, life, partner and
Common relationship misunderstandings – Part Three
I'm qualified to judge if your upset is justified. Should a partner sit in judgement of their partners' upset or emotions? So I meet many people
Common misunderstandings – Part Two
Misunderstanding part two: "You have to give to others to get back what you need". This thinking is assuming that trading needs is a
Common relationship misunderstandings – Part One
Misunderstanding one: You have to love yourself before others will love you. I hear this misunderstanding a lot. So I asked one gentleman who
“Yes, you are incompatible”!
When a client mentions they are concerned they are incompatible, I can see the shock in their eyes when my answer is “yes, you are”! Any couple is