So what do you do when a person is having marriage problems due to them living the story they tell themselves about their marriage, life, partner and
Common relationship misunderstandings – Part Three
I'm qualified to judge if your upset is justified. Should a partner sit in judgement of their partners' upset or emotions? So I meet many people
Common misunderstandings – Part Two
Misunderstanding part two: "You have to give to others to get back what you need". This thinking is assuming that trading needs is a
Common relationship misunderstandings – Part One
Misunderstanding one: You have to love yourself before others will love you. I hear this misunderstanding a lot. So I asked one gentleman who
“Yes, you are incompatible”!
When a client mentions they are concerned they are incompatible, I can see the shock in their eyes when my answer is “yes, you are”! Any couple is
“The Pleaser”!
The plight of "The Pleaser" who ends up being a victim of their own behaviours without knowing. At first sight, a pleaser is a selfless person who
“Men that surrender their masculinity”
I see far too many men giving up their masculinity in a quest to give his wife what he thinks she wants and needs. Many men are totally lost when
How to rebuild trust in a marriage after…
Infidelity, lying, emotional affair, broken promises, addictions, loss of love, loss of emotional support and connection. Breaks of trust are
“Partner doesn’t care about my feelings”
Today I’m going to share a root problem for all couples that if practised will provide a high guarantee of marriage failure so it’s really important