My clients are bright successful people. Yet the sentence I hear almost every week is "why don't we know this?" I asked myself the same question as
A Thought for Sunday
What if your thoughts are not you? Have you ever considered this? Well many years ago this was news to me! This was not something I would have ever
“Sitting on the fence”
Many people have found themselves stuck in a marriage that is not working for them. They know they are unhappy and have been for a while. They
“Where is your integrity?”
INTEGRITY: The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles, critical for any marriage. What do we think of people who are not
The Madness of Reactive Couples
Reactive couples in volume are leading each other into misery in their marriage. I spend my life helping couples to wake up to their reactive
37 Marriage Mistakes to Avoid
Below is a list of mistakes that can lead a marriage to disconnect. The list is in no particular order yet all are critical to understand if love and
Punishing our partners…
What are we all taught growing up? If we do something bad or something against the law, or against the rules, we will be punished. It starts
Why is being in love so hard?
The truth is that when done right being in love is the most rewarding place to be. Sadly many couples struggle to keep their love alive and they
The mirror of destruction pattern
Many couples are suffering from a mirroring pattern that disables their ability to grow together. The mirroring pattern happens when one person