It’s critical to know quickly when you and your relationship are in a pattern that could be destructive to its future. Many of these destructive
Unhealthy conflict couples suffer the most…
Unhealthy Conflict problems? Marriages that last are the ones that experience adversity and come out the other side more connected. If a couple can
The hidden struggle couples are facing
In yesterday's post, I presented 4 stages a person/couple must go through to create permanent changes. If you missed it please click here. The
The Win-Win process for couples in crisis
Couples seeking marital help will naturally fit into a few camps. From both people knowing they are making the marriage worse, but don't know what
“Cost of using a marriage to heal past emotional problems”!
Today’s post might not relate to everyone, but it might be worth a quick look as this might be happening to you. So everyone growing up on some
Why don’t business people see this..?
My marriage in crisis service naturally attracts a lot of successful high-powered business people. Here is an observation I find interesting that
Helping Couples on the Edge of Divorce
The solution for any couple in crisis is always connected to understanding a number of critical influencing factors. The complexity in the couples
“My partner refuses to talk about our problems”
I get people seeking help from me on their own because their husband or wife will refuse to talk about their problems with them or with a
“I triggered her…”!
So when coaching this lady I purposely took her to one of her triggers so I could learn how she did her upset to herself. I then took her into a
Relationship Conflict: Understanding & Resolving
Couples across the world are under stress every day by their out-of-control relationship conflict. The knowledge and understanding of how to
Walking on eggshells? What is the cost?
Many people are "walking on eggshells" in their marriage and it's killing their connection. Whenever a person tells me they are walking on
“I’ve lost who I am in my marriage”
I asked this lady when was the last time she felt she was her true self in her marriage. Over the phone I could hear her tears through the silence