Why is it some people struggle to let go of the past? Are they bad partners are they being difficult? Do they want your life together to be
“My husband says he loves me but I don’t feel it”
I hear this story every day. The reason I hear it is because so many people are stuck in a number of patterns that are destructive on both sides and
“Don’t tell me what I mean!”
What do you do when your partner has a habit of changing your words and your meanings in conversations and then makes you responsible for their
What’s the root cause of our problems?
When a couple keeps experiencing the same old problems and they keep trying to fix the symptoms of the root problem they will suffer and many will
Does their pain matter?
So I asked this gentleman to help me with two scenarios. The first scenario was his wife was in the home upset shouting bad words at him. I
“FREEDOM”
One of the biggest requests from people who have suffered in their marriage is they want space, freedom to think, they just want to get away, run
A thought for Sunday
Whilst helping couples with their marital crisis I see many people who are trying to control their life, they try to control their relationship, and
Affairs!
So many people who discover their partners' affair are shocked at why they are not running or kicking them out. They were convinced an affair would
Why is being in love so hard?
The truth is that when done right being in love is the most rewarding place to be. Sadly many couples struggle to keep their love alive and they
The mirror of destruction pattern
Many couples are suffering from a mirroring pattern that disables their ability to grow together. The mirroring pattern happens when one person
People who are always trying to be right?
One group of people I bump into whilst helping couples out of their crisis are the ones that are hell-bent on being right. In fact being right for
My partner needs to change!
In their droves, people with marital problems come to me wanting me to change their partners' behaviors. In fact, many people come to me