Some couples can find themselves in a confusing crisis because they have not experienced a specific problem. This is because they have lived in a
“What are you defending yourself for”?
Listening to so many couple's stories a person becoming defensive is a typical pattern I see every day. If someone is defending themselves then in
The Punishment Model
I know many people use a model of punishing their partner when they have done something they perceive to be wrong or upsetting. The problem with
“Never make this mistake”!
Never make the mistake of attaching your unhappiness to the wrong thing especially in a marriage. Look at what happens when a person is triggered
Expectations kill relationships
To understand why expectations can kill relationships we are going to firstly look at the formula for being upset? A person becomes upset when the
“Wasting time”?
Many people waste their lives on what really doesn't matter and they find their truth when it's too late. It’s interesting the shift of
Can’t communicate? Find out why today…
Why do so many couples find it impossible to communicate, what is causing the problems that so many couples struggle with? Communication on the
Repatterning couples to succeed
Are you patterned for success or failure in your marriage? You know you are patterned for a successful marriage when you both can influence a
“My marriage has changed me and I’m suffering”!
If you want to build a successful marriage you’ll need the courage to be who you really are with your husband or wife. Many people are fearful of
“I can’t love you and protect myself from you”!
Today's post is about how divorce can become such a shocking option. The process that leads a couple to divorce takes a couple through a
28 Behaviours that damage marriages
It’s critical to know quickly when you and your relationship are in a pattern that could be destructive to its future. Many of these destructive
She nearly divorced him for the wrong reason
Sometimes I can see a person is about to make a disastrous life-changing decision and I have to show them a safer path. Today's post is about a