Coping with an Affair: How to Rebuild Trust and Save Your Marriage
If your marriage is in crisis due to an affair, coping with the emotional fallout can feel overwhelming. Learning the steps to rebuild trust while…
Feeling Torn Between Two Relationships?
Here’s How to Take Back Control and Decide With Confidence. You never planned on being here, caught between two relationships, feeling torn between two relationships…
How to Help Spouse Heal After Affair?
I had an affair – How do I help my spouse heal and trust me again? Discovering that you’ve deeply hurt someone you love by…
Betrayed by an Affair: How to Survive Infidelity and Rebuild Your Marriage
Discovering your partner’s affair hits you like a tidal wave. Shock, anger, and confusion all colliding at once. If you’re the one who’s been betrayed,…
The Affair is Over BUT Our Problems are NOT
So what do you do when you discover your partners affair and after they stop the affair another set of problems is created? What if…
“Affairs and their illusions!”
Affairs are dangerous for the people having them because there are hidden forces at play that take over what they feel. People can make life-changing…
“Obsession”
Have you noticed that success in any area of life requires a certain amount of obsession? If you look at business owners, you will notice…
“Teaching your partner to leave the marriage?”
We are all in our marriages of our own free will, so doesn’t it make sense that if either person keeps feeling bad in the…
Affair Repair: First thing you need to know
Can a couple really recover from an affair? The answer is “…it depends!” Affairs and the fallout from affairs make up a significant part of…
Sexual Attraction: How we kill it without knowing
One of the most critical parts of any long-term relationship is understanding how to keep the attraction alive. It’s one of the most misunderstood parts…
Marriage Crisis from Infidelity & Communication Breakdown
Today’s post is about a professional couple in the UK who decided they wanted to share their experience of their tailormade program that was designed…
“Which man should she choose?” – Mini post
Two years ago a lady came to my session with a problem. She didn’t know which man to choose. This is not an isolated case…
Why Do Women Have Affairs in Relationships?
Understanding what drives her into the arms of another When a woman has an affair, most people rush to judge. She’s labelled as selfish, cruel, or immoral. But the truth is far more complex—and if you’re the partner left reeling from the betrayal, not understanding why it happened can leave you stuck in endless pain. While every…
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She had an affair but years later it still tortures him… WHY!!?
“Why did she do it? I just don’t understand why and not knowing, it’s destroying us.” These are the words from a man broken by his wifes actions. Quietly she agrees they can’t go on this way… It’s very easy to make instant judgments when you first hear these kinds of stories. Everyone will have…
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How to trust again after an affair
Trust is one of those key foundations for life, without it we know that something feels very wrong. So how do you create trust, how is it possible to trust others? How is it possible to trust others when you have proof at times they can’t be trusted? One lady came to me last year…
Why an affair is NOT the right solution
Of all the relationship challenges I deal with, this one has to be the one that causes the most problems on so many levels. In fact, if I ever discover one person in my session is still involved with a third party and hasn’t told me, I will stop the couple’s sessions and move them…
He thought she didn’t love him so he started an affair?
This couple had been married for 15 years and a hidden problem was going to cause shock waves with an unexpected result, especially for him. She discovered he had cheated on her. He said in the session “I never thought you loved me” shocked she replied “how could you say that, that’s NOT TRUE?” She…
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Affairs – Infidelity – Cheating is it a sign of things to come or simply a wake-up call?
I’m sure it comes as no surprise that dealing with Infidelity makes up a significant percentage of my work with couples. In these situations my job isn’t just to save their marriage, it’s to learn how they got into this position and to help the couple discover if it’s possible to rebuild a dynamic that…