Have you ever noticed that when two people in a relationship are in conflict, they are battling to convince the other person their version of events
2022 is this going to be your year?
As this new year begins, I know many of you will be reflecting on the state of your married life. Many will conclude they have not been happy for a
“A Wise Old Man’s Decision about his Marriage”
So I was chatting with this gentleman in his seventies. As we talked about our lives, he opened his wallet to show me a picture of his wife. The
“The 6 Shifts Needed to Rebuild Connection & Trust after a Marital Crisis!”
Rebuilding connection and trust is a process. Couples who are potentially on the edge of divorce will have taken a few years to get to this point
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
Are you Masculine or Feminine?
I asked this lady if she thought her husband was masculine or feminine. I asked this because her answer would lead me to what I needed to do to help
Client responds to testimonial
I'm working with this lady, and during the session, she wanted to comment on a testimonial another client had left. As you go through today post,
“Worst relationship mistake you can make”
When I look at the most destructive behaviours couples experience. Understanding this specific pattern can help them avoid many common relationship
The Buck Stops Here?
Virtually every person that comes for help has made their partner responsible for the state of their relationship. Someone in this common model of
Badly Patterned Relationships
Are you in a bad relationship or a bad pattern? Understanding the answer to this question can liberate a person to get out of a toxic relationship
“I was in tears…”
'Initially I went to Stephen with a sole focus on saving my marriage as my husband wanted a divorce whilst I felt I could not let go of the 14 years'