The fastest way to build resentment, create disconnection and move them to meet their needs outside of the relationship is to tell them you are
“Never Threaten The End of the Relationship!” – Mini Post
I'm introducing a new category into this blog. It's called "Stop and Never" Mini Post Series which should be under 200 words - I'll try... In
“What I’m looking for is not out there, it is in me…”
This quote by Helen Keller has such an important meaning to me and what I have to do to help others. You see the process of helping people back to
“An expert would have predicted their future problems”
What's always so sad is the volume of people who come to me with problems that could have been averted very simply many years before. The question
“What’s the meaning of this”?
One of the fundamental skills that are lacking in almost every client I see is the ability to attach an accurate meaning to their partner's words and
Advice for Controlling Relationships
A consistent theme I see with couples in crisis who are struggling to keep their relationship healthy is when one or both people feel the need to
“The Pattern Interrupt – The critical step for helping marriages out of a crisis”
I'm on weekly zoom calls with a professional married couple living in Switzerland. They joined my Marriage Breakthrough Program because they knew
“The danger that’s hidden in plain sight”
What we are about to uncover today is affecting all couples across the planet. It's one of the most significant problems couples face and most are
Want to avoid a divorce?
If your marriage has been suffering yet you want to see if it can work, if you are lost with what to think, or where to put your energy, what you are
WHY are we struggling to fix our marriage?
In today's post, I’m going to present some typical scenarios I might see in couples crisis meetings. Once you have scanned through them I’m going to
They Lost Control of their Marriage and Themselves
The problem that keeps presenting itself in my sessions is the very simple fact that both people, on some level, have lost control of the relationship
“28 Ways to Destroy Your Marriage”!
Today's post is important because many people are unaware of what they are doing in their marriage, which can make matters worse without meaning