When you consider the massive scale of problems I see every year, which problem is common in almost every situation? From affairs to loss of
Problem Partners
What do you do when your partner has a problem that seems oddly unsolvable? When I’m on a call interviewing couples to see if an assessment session
A thought for Sunday
What do you do when your partner tells you they have never loved you? What is really going on here? You’ve probably heard the saying, “throw the
Triggers – The Good The bad & The Ugly
We all have triggers that affect our emotional states negatively. But what happens when those triggers affect the heath of our lives and our
Sitting on the fence?
One of the challenges that regularly enter my sessions is when one person is unsure what they want. This is a very challenging position for both
“It’s impossible without this”!
I work with some of the brightest minds worldwide, yet this skill is not front of mind or understood and so their marriages begin to suffer and they
“The Problem with the Bias”
Part three of the "what do we do when our mind is working against us" series? One bias I see a lot is between men and women, both think their
“International Lawyer saves relationship alone”!
“I went to see Stephen when my relationship was at breaking point. The final trigger was my partner’s plan to sell his property and move in with
Should you trust your mind?
Have you ever heard the concept that your thoughts are not you? In yesterdays "Thought for Sunday" post, I posed the thought there are times in our
A thought for Sunday
What do we do when our mind is working against us and our own happiness. There are times in our lives when our minds can work against us and lead
“Passion at any age”!
I know many people believe that passion for couples dies with time. It only dies if the couple stops bringing this energy into their lives. You
“Got the right map”?
Today I want to share a simple illustration that explains why couples are struggling to stay connected. The fundamental reason is because they have