People looking for a divorce will have been through a process, and I'll talk about one part of that process today. So before we get into this,
When he changed – she changed!
When she decided to leave him he thought it was over, they were a married couple in their early 40's with a young child. He discovered that when
A Thought for Sunday
When we look at our lives, many people are unhappy with their lot. It's not uncommon to find someone unhappy in one part of their life, and it affects
“Am I really the problem”?
A significant fear in individuals seeking help for marital problems is when one person is worried they are the problem. Or worse, they are worried
Most common problems leading couples to divorce!
I sit at the sharp end of marital crisis every day, and I see first-hand what everyone is doing that's leading them to divorce. Far too many have
“How to change myself to save my marriage”?
More and more of my clients are starting to realise the old way of approaching struggling relationships really doesn't work. You can ask or tell
“Take back control”!
I hear of so many people stuck in relationship challenges, and they don't know what to do. For some, their partner doesn't want help, or they don't
No.1 Relationship Problem To Avoid
When you consider the massive scale of problems I see every year, which problem is common in almost every situation? From affairs to loss of
Problem Partners
What do you do when your partner has a problem that seems oddly unsolvable? When I’m on a call interviewing couples to see if an assessment session
A thought for Sunday
What do you do when your partner tells you they have never loved you? What is really going on here? You’ve probably heard the saying, “throw the
Triggers – The Good The bad & The Ugly
We all have triggers that affect our emotional states negatively. But what happens when those triggers affect the heath of our lives and our
Sitting on the fence?
One of the challenges that regularly enter my sessions is when one person is unsure what they want. This is a very challenging position for both