Every so often, a couple turns up for help. I can clearly see one person is coachable and the other isn’t. The uncoachable person may be
“We can’t Communicate, are we Doomed?”
When you're constantly struggling to communicate with your partner it can feel like the beginning of the end, but it’s not necessarily a sign your
Conflict: She never considered how he felt…
One of the most important skills couples must master is the ability to manage their own emotions so they can get the most out of their partner,
40 Reasons Why A Marriage Won’t Work
1. 70%+ of divorces are filed by women mainly due to loss of emotional security and emotional connection, both cripple their ability to trust their
“Destructive emotional patterns…”
The challenge we all face is that, on some level, we all have some unhelpful emotional patterns that we learned growing up. It's nothing to be
“Marriage at Risk from Destructive Triggers”
A person's out-of-control emotional triggers can have a profoundly negative effect on the quality of a couple's marriage in the end, making it an
“Top 1% Marriages do Something Different…”
In today’s post, I’m covering successful relationships and how they differ from what most practice. So, if you are struggling, this one shift could
“I had to stop her – she was killing the marriage she wanted to keep!”
There are so many situations where I have to stop a person's behaviours towards their partner - the story you are about to read about this lady who
“The Biggest Relationship Red Flag”
Many people enter my sessions saying they saw red flags in their relationship, and they ignored them. These red flags exist because people must
How to stop couples fighting!
I remember being in a session with a couple who were in an ongoing pattern of upset with each other. I remember saying to them, "It’s just like
“How To Stop Fears Taking Over Relationships!”
After nearly two decades of working with couples in crisis, I have seen a lot. There is an insight I want to share that’s having an impact on every
“The Relationship Mirror Problem”
A lady was just starting her session with me, but she looked distracted, so I enquired what was going on. She apologised and said she just had an