I remember being in a session with a couple who were in an ongoing pattern of upset with each other. I remember saying to them, "It’s just like
“How To Stop Fears Taking Over Relationships!”
After nearly two decades of working with couples in crisis, I have seen a lot. There is an insight I want to share that’s having an impact on every
“The Relationship Mirror Problem”
A lady was just starting her session with me, but she looked distracted, so I enquired what was going on. She apologised and said she just had an
His Marriage was Over!
This man was in the depths of sadness; his marriage was over, but he didn’t want it to be. They had seen numerous counsellors who had all concluded
“Needy and not needed!”
This emotional position has to be one of the most soul-destroying positions to be in. In today's post, I'm going to share the problem and give two
The Divorce Path – Divorce Prevention Part 2
A very successful businessman was on a call with me, passionately complaining about his wife's behaviour. He complained about what she did that he
Mistakes that lead couples to Divorce – Part 1
So having spent the best part of two decades listening to couples on the edge of divorce, there is much to learn from them. I have been looking for
Can’t live with you. Can’t live without you!
So this couple split up and started to see other people. When I met this gentleman, he was dating, but every experience was empty. So I asked
Breaking unhealthy relationship patterns
One of the keys to so many couples reconnecting is their new knowledge of their destructive/outdated patterns. Ill-formed patterns can change the
Men are afraid – Mini Post
I speak to many men in troubled relationships and many are living with fears they will never share with her. They are not living in fear of their