This man was in the depths of sadness; his marriage was over, but he didn’t want it to be. They had seen numerous counsellors who had all concluded
“Needy and not needed!”
This emotional position has to be one of the most soul-destroying positions to be in. In today's post, I'm going to share the problem and give two
The Divorce Path – Divorce Prevention Part 2
A very successful businessman was on a call with me, passionately complaining about his wife's behaviour. He complained about what she did that he
Mistakes that lead couples to Divorce – Part 1
So having spent the best part of two decades listening to couples on the edge of divorce, there is much to learn from them. I have been looking for
Can’t live with you. Can’t live without you!
So this couple split up and started to see other people. When I met this gentleman, he was dating, but every experience was empty. So I asked
Breaking unhealthy relationship patterns
One of the keys to so many couples reconnecting is their new knowledge of their destructive/outdated patterns. Ill-formed patterns can change the
Men are afraid – Mini Post
I speak to many men in troubled relationships and many are living with fears they will never share with her. They are not living in fear of their
“Most Marital Problems Are Misunderstandings”
Did you know that when a couple's problem is properly understood in most cases they stay together because they can now see the misunderstanding they
“I’ve lost feelings for my partner!”
So here is an interesting dilemma for this person they might not have considered. There is no question that this feeling is true for that person so
Prediction = Security
If I were to sum up most couples' problems, it's in their inability to predict what will happen based on their actions, as a result, they live unsafe
“She lost connection with herself”
If you are in a marriage where the love has died and living together is now transactional or being together is a struggle due to constant conflict
“I’m struggling to love you!”
What do you do when two people have a love for each other but have lost the ability to be in love with each other? It's very common for couples to