The art of Negative Pattern Switching is a key skill to learn especially if you are in a relationship. One of the energies that has a profound
“Crisis out of the blue”!
Some couples can find themselves in a confusing crisis because they have not experienced a specific problem. This is because they have lived in a
“What are you defending yourself for”?
Listening to so many couple's stories a person becoming defensive is a typical pattern I see every day. If someone is defending themselves then in
The Punishment Model
I know many people use a model of punishing their partner when they have done something they perceive to be wrong or upsetting. The problem with
“Never make this mistake”!
Never make the mistake of attaching your unhappiness to the wrong thing especially in a marriage. Look at what happens when a person is triggered
Expectations kill relationships
To understand why expectations can kill relationships we are going to firstly look at the formula for being upset? A person becomes upset when the
Can’t communicate? Find out why today…
Why do so many couples find it impossible to communicate, what is causing the problems that so many couples struggle with? Communication on the
How to take back control of yourself and your relationship
If you are a regular reader of this blog you will notice the many factors that can influence a person's feelings and behaviors. One factor I have
“Worst kind of marriage”!
The worst kind of marriages are the ones that practice the reverse of what it needs to survive. The traits of the worst marriages will kill the
“My marriage has changed me and I’m suffering”!
If you want to build a successful marriage you’ll need the courage to be who you really are with your husband or wife. Many people are fearful of
“I can’t love you and protect myself from you”!
Today's post is about how divorce can become such a shocking option. The process that leads a couple to divorce takes a couple through a
28 Behaviours that damage marriages
It’s critical to know quickly when you and your relationship are in a pattern that could be destructive to its future. Many of these destructive