I have had hundreds of sessions where a lady in a session is sharing her upset and the man is totally confused as to why she would feel this
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
10 Steps for Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what works
Too many people regret divorcing once the dust has settled
Very sad divorce regret story that changed her whole life and the life of her child who had no say in her mistake, she said to me "...but I'm
Marriage in crisis due to an affair? Learn the steps to rebuilding the trust whilst creating a brand new dynamic that future proofs the relationship.
When an affair is discovered it has the ability to create the most volcanic reactions. Infidelity has the power to shock the relationship into never
Passionless Marriage: “Sex life dying – want to know why?”
One of the most common problems couples face is a loss of passion. If you are in a passionless marriage then I’m going to share the most common causes
Marriage in Crisis? Has your partner fallen out of love with you and you want to save your relationship? Learn the steps to helping them fall back in love with you again.
Today's post is a combination of what to do and what not to do if you want to save your relationship. The first action a couple has to take to see if
“Normal healthy marriage? What on earth does that look like?”
What do you do when a couple has normalised their distorted dynamic and sits blaming each other for their problems? What do you do when each person
“There’s no hope in hell – I want a divorce!”
So what do you do when the trust is broken so badly that their relationship ends with them selling their family home and moving into separate
Successful men in unsuccessful marriages
So, one group of people I consistently deal with is professionally successful men who are unaware of how their natural way of being, which created
“Leave them!?”
You only get one life, so if you're in a painful relationship and suffering, of course, you can leave them, BUT!... And it’s a big but!!!
“Destructive emotional patterns…”
The challenge we all face is that, on some level, we all have some unhelpful emotional patterns that we learned growing up. It's nothing to be
A Shallow Emotional Connection is causing long-term marital problems
Why did my partner have an affair? Why does my partner want to leave me? Why has our love died? Sometimes, the reason someone would break their
Affair Repair: First thing you need to know
Can a couple really recover from an affair? The answer is “…it depends!” Affairs and the fallout from affairs make up a significant part of my work
Sexual Attraction: How we kill it without knowing
One of the most critical parts of any long-term relationship is understanding how to keep the attraction alive. It’s one of the most misunderstood
“Why fighting to save a marriage will fail..!”
If you want to save your marriage, you must fight for your relationship the right way… When I first meet a person or a couple, I usually see the