I know many people believe that passion for couples dies with time. It only dies if the couple stops bringing this energy into their lives. You
Don’t Understand Your Spouse?
I am inundated with messages of disconnect. Requests for me to save their marriage or help couples through the chaos of an affair. Everywhere you
“Affairs don’t work”!
Marriages created from an affair are the least likely to be successful - the success rate is just 5%. As you go through this post you see the
“My Secret Friend”
This post may be obvious to many but I see so many couples where one person has a friend they don't tell their partner about. My message today is
How to rebuild trust in a marriage after…
Infidelity, lying, emotional affair, broken promises, addictions, loss of love, loss of emotional support and connection. Breaks of trust are
“Don’t think of an elephant”!
Have you ever noticed that it’s very challenging to take something out of your mind especially if that event is painful? I asked you to not think
Affair addiction
So when a neurosurgeon stepped into my office due to his affair my opening line was... “Well, we are going to have an interesting
Why do people have affairs?
So this is an interesting question because one answer is due to problems in the marriage and the other answer is because they can. So there are
Why affairs that end in marriage rarely work
When I looked into the statistics of divorce what was interesting is that second marriages had a far higher divorce rate than first marriages. When