People in unhappy relationships can find themselves being tempted into affairs. To them, the affair has magically solved the unhappiness
“Attraction Dies Stress Appears”!
Attraction is a fundamental foundation for every relationship, but I'm not convinced people are aware of how important it is in keeping a relationship
“I’m no longer in love with you”!
Every week I receive many messages telling me their partner says they no longer love them. They write wanting to know if there is anything they can
“Why can’t you just let it go”!?
When the past is so present, how can there ever be a future? A person refusing to let go of the past or its problems is a common complaint that
“Tortured by the past”!
What do you do when a past problem from years before stays alive in your marriage? One of the daily challenges I see in my sessions is a person
Should you trust your mind?
Have you ever heard the concept that your thoughts are not you? In yesterdays "Thought for Sunday" post, I posed the thought there are times in our
“Passion at any age”!
I know many people believe that passion for couples dies with time. It only dies if the couple stops bringing this energy into their lives. You
Don’t Understand Your Spouse?
I am inundated with messages of disconnect. Requests for me to save their marriage or help couples through the chaos of an affair. Everywhere you
“Affairs don’t work”!
Marriages created from an affair are the least likely to be successful - the success rate is just 5%. As you go through this post you see the
“My Secret Friend”
This post may be obvious to many but I see so many couples where one person has a friend they don't tell their partner about. My message today is
How to rebuild trust in a marriage after…
Infidelity, lying, emotional affair, broken promises, addictions, loss of love, loss of emotional support and connection. Breaks of trust are
“Don’t think of an elephant”!
Have you ever noticed that it’s very challenging to take something out of your mind especially if that event is painful? I asked you to not think