Arguing is really a power struggle between two people who are forcefully wanting the other person to see things their way. If you looked at it from
“Why your marriage may not be broken”
Many people wrongly assume their marriage is over, so today I’m going to share something important with you. Too many people are struggling to see
“Never try to change your partner”
I'm going to share why trying to change your partner is likely to kill your connection, your attraction for each other and negatively affect your sex
Retired couple in crisis “We should know better at our age!”
So I was speaking with this lady about her marital problems. She was just over 60 and her husband a retired CEO told her he was planning to leave
“What I’m looking for is not out there, it is in me…”
This quote by Helen Keller has such an important meaning to me and what I have to do to help others. You see the process of helping people back to
“An expert would have predicted their future problems”
What's always so sad is the volume of people who come to me with problems that could have been averted very simply many years before. The question
“What’s the meaning of this”?
One of the fundamental skills that are lacking in almost every client I see is the ability to attach an accurate meaning to their partner's words and
Advice for Controlling Relationships
A consistent theme I see with couples in crisis who are struggling to keep their relationship healthy is when one or both people feel the need to
“The Pattern Interrupt – The critical step for helping marriages out of a crisis”
I'm on weekly zoom calls with a professional married couple living in Switzerland. They joined my Marriage Breakthrough Program because they knew
“The danger that’s hidden in plain sight”
What we are about to uncover today is affecting all couples across the planet. It's one of the most significant problems couples face and most are
Want to avoid a divorce?
If your marriage has been suffering yet you want to see if it can work, if you are lost with what to think, or where to put your energy, what you are
WHY are we struggling to fix our marriage?
In today's post, I’m going to present some typical scenarios I might see in couples crisis meetings. Once you have scanned through them I’m going to