Understanding just this point will go a long way to help people understand why they are struggling or going round in circles. Everyone is different
“Expect problems”!
So a couple in their early 40s book an initial consultation because they know their marriage is failing. They tell me something is wrong with their
“You can’t trust your brain until you’ve conditioned it”!
What happens when a person has doubt, especially doubt about their relationship? What this doubt creates is a person living a story that helps them
“Tortured by the past”!
What do you do when a past problem from years before stays alive in your marriage? One of the daily challenges I see in my sessions is a person
“People wanting a divorce”
People looking for a divorce will have been through a process, and I'll talk about one part of that process today. So before we get into this,
When he changed – she changed!
When she decided to leave him he thought it was over, they were a married couple in their early 40's with a young child. He discovered that when
“Am I really the problem”?
A significant fear in individuals seeking help for marital problems is when one person is worried they are the problem. Or worse, they are worried
Most common problems leading couples to divorce!
I sit at the sharp end of marital crisis every day, and I see first-hand what everyone is doing that's leading them to divorce. Far too many have
“How to change myself to save my marriage”?
More and more of my clients are starting to realise the old way of approaching struggling relationships really doesn't work. You can ask or tell
“Take back control”!
I hear of so many people stuck in relationship challenges, and they don't know what to do. For some, their partner doesn't want help, or they don't
Triggers – The Good The bad & The Ugly
We all have triggers that affect our emotional states negatively. But what happens when those triggers affect the heath of our lives and our
Sitting on the fence?
One of the challenges that regularly enter my sessions is when one person is unsure what they want. This is a very challenging position for both