We all know that to master anything, there has to be continuous and unwavering practice. We all know that mastery of anything can take years of
Living The Victim Story
So what do you do when a person is having marriage problems due to them living the story they tell themselves about their marriage, life, partner and
“Do I matter to you”?
A common problem I see is individuals in relationships can worry they are not enough for their partner. A person not feeling they are enough is one
Past = Future?
I hear many people assume that their relationship history is a good predictor of what the future will hold. People with this belief can feel less
Commitment to yourself
One of the relationships I might look at when helping couples through their challenges is the individuals' commitment to themselves. You see, in
Not all danger comes with a warning!
The hidden challenges that sit within relationships and their ability to be married for life is significant. I have spent the best part of two
Common Relationship misunderstandings – Part Four
Misunderstand Part Four: Punishing your partner corrects unwanted behaviours. Why do so many couples practice punishment as a means to correct
Common relationship misunderstandings – Part Three
I'm qualified to judge if your upset is justified. Should a partner sit in judgement of their partners' upset or emotions? So I meet many people
Common misunderstandings – Part Two
Misunderstanding part two: "You have to give to others to get back what you need". This thinking is assuming that trading needs is a
Common relationship misunderstandings – Part One
Misunderstanding one: You have to love yourself before others will love you. I hear this misunderstanding a lot. So I asked one gentleman who
Can’t communicate with your partner?
Can't get through to your partner? Arguments going round in circles? Poor communication skills is a foundational reason why so many couples
“I felt desire for the first time in years”!
A client comes for my help and is totally convinced the marriage is in a hopeless state. Weeks later, they are both shocked at how quickly they