The challenge so many couples in crisis face they are constantly battling with their symptoms thinking that's the real problem. So they go round in
Masculine, feminine and attraction
This topic of masculine and feminine seems to generate a lot of confusion, debate and disagreement. Some are not aware of it's power in intimate
Empowerment
The process of rebuilding a couple's connection can only work when the process is about learning personal empowerment. Love doesn’t regrow when the
“We are not a team”!
The reason couples don’t feel they are a team is because they don’t design their lives together. Too many don't see this as important yet it's
15 Energies that kill relationships
Below is a basic list of 15 behaviours that couples need to move away from if they wish to keep their connection alive. In the coming days I'm
“I think my marriage is over, but I’m fearful”
Many couples are suffering year after year unsure what to do. They have so much invested in their marriage but they cannot escape a fundamental
Emotional triggers – time to take control
When a person is out of control of their own emotional triggers they can blame others for the feelings they are creating. With a shift of
Miserable Marriage…
What is the point of being married when married life is so miserable? Isn’t the point of a marriage to magnify the feelings we like experiencing?
“Don’t think of an elephant”!
Have you ever noticed that it’s very challenging to take something out of your mind especially if that event is painful? I asked you to not think
“Not equipped” – Part 2
Yesterday I set the scene that couples are not naturally designed to understand how to solve their marital problems. Today I want to expand a
“Not equipped for the job”
I meet some of the loveliest people in the most horrible situations. These people are smart, bright, creative people with a good heart at their core,
The Joyless
It’s true that many people become addicted to their unhappiness or lack of joy. They are addicted to meeting their needs through a search for what is