Misunderstand Part Four: Punishing your partner corrects unwanted behaviours. Why do so many couples practice punishment as a means to correct
Common relationship misunderstandings – Part Three
I'm qualified to judge if your upset is justified. Should a partner sit in judgement of their partners' upset or emotions? So I meet many people
Common misunderstandings – Part Two
Misunderstanding part two: "You have to give to others to get back what you need". This thinking is assuming that trading needs is a
Common relationship misunderstandings – Part One
Misunderstanding one: You have to love yourself before others will love you. I hear this misunderstanding a lot. So I asked one gentleman who
Can’t communicate with your partner?
Can't get through to your partner? Arguments going round in circles? Poor communication skills is a foundational reason why so many couples
“I felt desire for the first time in years”!
A client comes for my help and is totally convinced the marriage is in a hopeless state. Weeks later, they are both shocked at how quickly they
“So many miss their only chance”!
Sadly too many couples are totally unaware of the destructive process they are in; this means they don’t take the right actions quickly enough and end
“The Pleaser”!
The plight of "The Pleaser" who ends up being a victim of their own behaviours without knowing. At first sight, a pleaser is a selfless person who
“Why couples are failing”!
Many couples do their best to solve their marriage problems but end up lost, knowing they are just making things worse. The reason they make things
“The Root Problem”!
The challenge so many couples in crisis face they are constantly battling with their symptoms thinking that's the real problem. So they go round in
Masculine, feminine and attraction
This topic of masculine and feminine seems to generate a lot of confusion, debate and disagreement. Some are not aware of it's power in intimate
Empowerment
The process of rebuilding a couple's connection can only work when the process is about learning personal empowerment. Love doesn’t regrow when the