A common problem I see is individuals in relationships can worry they are not enough for their partner.
A person not feeling they are enough is one of the most powerful and challenging fears for many people in intimate relationships.
This worry is compounded when they feel that other things are more important than they are in their marriage.
Some people will make money more important than their connection with their partner.
Others will make their work or their children more important.
Some will make their own parents, friends or their work more important than their partner.
In essence, if anything is more important than your partner in their eyes, there will be a problem.