I receive a common message through my new client application forms: "My partner has lost their feelings for me". These are men and women on their
“Why Suffer”?
Why do couples suffer in their marriage? Are they the wrong fit?Have they naturally grown apart?Do they have a problem they can't get over?Do they
“36 Principles for Success”!
What must couples know before they decide to throw in the towel? A significant number of couples are in crisis because they don’t know how to bring
IMPORTANT: “Your partner isn’t like you”!
Understanding just this point will go a long way to help people understand why they are struggling or going round in circles. Everyone is different
“Expect problems”!
So a couple in their early 40s book an initial consultation because they know their marriage is failing. They tell me something is wrong with their
“You can’t trust your brain until you’ve conditioned it”!
What happens when a person has doubt, especially doubt about their relationship? What this doubt creates is a person living a story that helps them
“Tortured by the past”!
What do you do when a past problem from years before stays alive in your marriage? One of the daily challenges I see in my sessions is a person
“People wanting a divorce”
People looking for a divorce will have been through a process, and I'll talk about one part of that process today. So before we get into this,
When he changed – she changed!
When she decided to leave him he thought it was over, they were a married couple in their early 40's with a young child. He discovered that when
“Am I really the problem”?
A significant fear in individuals seeking help for marital problems is when one person is worried they are the problem. Or worse, they are worried
Most common problems leading couples to divorce!
I sit at the sharp end of marital crisis every day, and I see first-hand what everyone is doing that's leading them to divorce. Far too many have
“How to change myself to save my marriage”?
More and more of my clients are starting to realise the old way of approaching struggling relationships really doesn't work. You can ask or tell