I have never written about this topic before, but it's an important part of transforming what seems like a hopeless marriage. It will also explain why
The Illusion That Kills Marriages
Do you know what the biggest killer of perfectly good marriages is? It’s not what most people think. Every day, couples enter my sessions believing
“What If How We Treat Our Partner Shapes Who They Become?”
As part of the self-sabotage series, I wanted to focus on how our behaviours can play a significant part in our partner's behaviours and reactions to
“Worried It’s the End? How to Bring Back Attraction and Save Your Marriage”
If you’re in a relationship where the attraction feels lost, please take a moment before making a life-changing decision. Many people assume that
Why Mastering Conflict is the Most Important Relationship Skill for Keeping Passion Alive
If there’s one thing that threatens the spark in any relationship, it’s unresolved conflict. And yet, learning how to master conflict may be the
His Quiet Despair: In His Words…
Today's post is about how to approach what seems like impossible problems. It starts with a man, Simon, sharing his frustration about his marriage,
“When is a relationship over?”
When someone asks me this question, the answer I give is very simple, many will give you many complex answers, but the reality is very simple. I
“Obsession”
Have you noticed that success in any area of life requires a certain amount of obsession? If you look at business owners, you will notice that they
“Some People Are Uncoachable, But It Doesn’t Mean They Can’t Change”
Every so often, a couple turns up for help. I can clearly see one person is coachable and the other isn’t. The uncoachable person may be
“We can’t Communicate, are we Doomed?”
When you're constantly struggling to communicate with your partner it can feel like the beginning of the end, but it’s not necessarily a sign your
Conflict: She never considered how he felt…
One of the most important skills couples must master is the ability to manage their own emotions so they can get the most out of their partner,
40 Reasons Why A Marriage Won’t Work
1. 70%+ of divorces are filed by women mainly due to loss of emotional security and emotional connection, both cripple their ability to trust their