When a marriage is on the rocks, the right questions must be asked to prevent either the wrong decision or the cycle of future destructive
“I felt desire for the first time in years”!
A client comes for my help and is totally convinced the marriage is in a hopeless state. Weeks later, they are both shocked at how quickly they
“Yes, you are incompatible”!
When a client mentions they are concerned they are incompatible, I can see the shock in their eyes when my answer is “yes, you are”! Any couple is
“So many miss their only chance”!
Sadly too many couples are totally unaware of the destructive process they are in; this means they don’t take the right actions quickly enough and end
“The Pleaser”!
The plight of "The Pleaser" who ends up being a victim of their own behaviours without knowing. At first sight, a pleaser is a selfless person who
“Why couples are failing”!
Many couples do their best to solve their marriage problems but end up lost, knowing they are just making things worse. The reason they make things
“The Root Problem”!
The challenge so many couples in crisis face they are constantly battling with their symptoms thinking that's the real problem. So they go round in
A thought for Sunday
What do you do when the marriage isn’t the problem, but the marriage is suffering because of it? When I look for the root cause for a couples
Masculine, feminine and attraction
This topic of masculine and feminine seems to generate a lot of confusion, debate and disagreement. Some are not aware of it's power in intimate
“Men that surrender their masculinity”
I see far too many men giving up their masculinity in a quest to give his wife what he thinks she wants and needs. Many men are totally lost when
How to rebuild trust in a marriage after…
Infidelity, lying, emotional affair, broken promises, addictions, loss of love, loss of emotional support and connection. Breaks of trust are
Empowerment
The process of rebuilding a couple's connection can only work when the process is about learning personal empowerment. Love doesn’t regrow when the