What is the point of being married when married life is so miserable? Isn’t the point of a marriage to magnify the feelings we like experiencing?
A thought for Sunday
What is the cost to you of being limited by your identity? Understanding this is the difference between emotional compassion and a battle with
“Don’t think of an elephant”!
Have you ever noticed that it’s very challenging to take something out of your mind especially if that event is painful? I asked you to not think
“Not equipped” – Part 2
Yesterday I set the scene that couples are not naturally designed to understand how to solve their marital problems. Today I want to expand a
“Not equipped for the job”
I meet some of the loveliest people in the most horrible situations. These people are smart, bright, creative people with a good heart at their core,
The Joyless
It’s true that many people become addicted to their unhappiness or lack of joy. They are addicted to meeting their needs through a search for what is
Reinvestment Strategy – Repatterning Couples For Success
I work with some of the toughest cases of marital crisis globally. These are the cases most people have almost given up on - even the professional
“I always want it my way”!
The way couples are trying to get their needs met is killing their connection and making it unlikely their partner will ever want to meet their
A thought for Sunday
The most intelligent people on the planet are the ones who are the most curious and so below are some important questions to ponder. These are the
“Their illusion is they are safe”!
I see many people fall into the trap of creating behaviours that are designed to keep them safe totally unaware these behaviours are not safe for them
“Trying to fix a marriage”?
So you want to fix your marriage or a least discover what is possible. So is the correct process to work out how we got here and what went
Changing needs are crippling marriages
What do you do when a relationship has felt happy for years and then suddenly a negative change for no reason starts to take hold. What do you do