The reason couples don’t feel they are a team is because they don’t design their lives together.
Too many don’t see this as important yet it’s critical to keep their connection alive and is part of their reconnection process.
They usually start reasonably well then the decline starts as their ability to be a team affects their connection.
Most people plan dates, they plan holidays, they plan to get married, they can even plan their children, but they don’t have a plan for their married life together.
I see this far too often that couples end up living their own separate lives whilst living under the same roof whilst bringing up children.
Not only do couples not design their life and its direction they are not designing how to manage situations as a team.
You see all couples have problems so what is the process of dealing with them?
What do couples design so they can become a team in those situations?
The answer is they design very little and then they don’t like where they are going or the experiences they are having.
So what is the design for getting the best from your partner in all situations?
What emotions are important to them and why?
You see far too many people I see are miserable whilst on the road to nowhere.
When a couple gets married they become a team, but so many don’t act like one and that’s a real problem.
Team members are supposed to care, support, have each other’s backs and be invested in each other happiness.