If you are in a marriage where the love has died and living together is now transactional or being together is a struggle due to constant conflict
“I’m struggling to love you!”
What do you do when two people have a love for each other but have lost the ability to be in love with each other? It's very common for couples to
“The Fundamental Issue with Marriages!”
I'm going to keep this brief and some of you won't like it. We are all aware that something fundamental is going wrong with marriages as volumes of
Triggers and behavioural patterns
Who knew that to navigate love effectively and keep the passion alive we all have to become better at understanding human behaviour? People are
“The Marital Death Spiral”
They are in a power struggle mainly due to hidden unmet needs. Both are feeling the other doesn't care but neither is really wanting the relationship
“People wanting to be right are ending up alone!”
Today's post is about the power of forgiveness and how for this lady avoiding this powerful step collapsed her whole life, she could have had it all,
“We have nothing in common!”
At least once a week, someone will tell me "We have nothing in common!" They are usually looking to stack their reasons for why the relationship isn't
Couples are repelling each other constantly.
Women are wanting a better connection yet her behaviours repel him, men want more sexual connections unaware he is killing her desire to see him as
“What’s the meaning of this”?
One of the fundamental skills that are lacking in almost every client I see is the ability to attach an accurate meaning to their partner's words and
Advice for Controlling Relationships
A consistent theme I see with couples in crisis who are struggling to keep their relationship healthy is when one or both people feel the need to
“The Pattern Interrupt – The critical step for helping marriages out of a crisis”
I'm on weekly zoom calls with a professional married couple living in Switzerland. They joined my Marriage Breakthrough Program because they knew
“The danger that’s hidden in plain sight”
What we are about to uncover today is affecting all couples across the planet. It's one of the most significant problems couples face and most are