When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
Are you Masculine or Feminine?
I asked this lady if she thought her husband was masculine or feminine. I asked this because her answer would lead me to what I needed to do to help
Client responds to testimonial
I'm working with this lady, and during the session, she wanted to comment on a testimonial another client had left. As you go through today post,
“Worst relationship mistake you can make”
When I look at the most destructive behaviours couples experience. Understanding this specific pattern can help them avoid many common relationship
The Buck Stops Here?
Virtually every person that comes for help has made their partner responsible for the state of their relationship. Someone in this common model of
Badly Patterned Relationships
Are you in a bad relationship or a bad pattern? Understanding the answer to this question can liberate a person to get out of a toxic relationship
“I was in tears…”
'Initially I went to Stephen with a sole focus on saving my marriage as my husband wanted a divorce whilst I felt I could not let go of the 14 years'
“Taking control of your life”
The number one change that has made the difference for my clients is to change what they are trying to control. People in unsuccessful
“Their breakthrough”!
What is it that can make a difference for a couple in crisis? What did this couple have to know to stop their divorce? This couple suffered from a
How to fix a relationship when one person is losing feelings
I receive a common message through my new client application forms: "My partner has lost their feelings for me". These are men and women on their
“Why Suffer”?
Why do couples suffer in their marriage? Are they the wrong fit?Have they naturally grown apart?Do they have a problem they can't get over?Do they