When the past is so present, how can there ever be a future? A person refusing to let go of the past or its problems is a common complaint that
Real life examples – The Cause and Effect Problem Couples are Blind to!
In today post I’m going to explain “the cause and effect problem” so many couples suffer from but are unaware it exists. I’m going to share with
People are leaving perfectly good relationships only to make the same mistake all over again.
Today I'm going to share a secret, what these people are not seeing and how their mind wrongly convinces them they are right. These secrets are
Who is right?
Have you ever noticed that when two people in a relationship are in conflict, they are battling to convince the other person their version of events
2022 is this going to be your year?
As this new year begins, I know many of you will be reflecting on the state of your married life. Many will conclude they have not been happy for a
“A Wise Old Man’s Decision about his Marriage”
So I was chatting with this gentleman in his seventies. As we talked about our lives, he opened his wallet to show me a picture of his wife. The
“The 6 Shifts Needed to Rebuild Connection & Trust after a Marital Crisis!”
Rebuilding connection and trust is a process. Couples who are potentially on the edge of divorce will have taken a few years to get to this point
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
Divorce Prevention
I have spent many many years working only with couples who are in crisis and on the edge of divorce. What I’ve learnt during this time is what
Are you Masculine or Feminine?
I asked this lady if she thought her husband was masculine or feminine. I asked this because her answer would lead me to what I needed to do to help
Client responds to testimonial
I'm working with this lady, and during the session, she wanted to comment on a testimonial another client had left. As you go through today post,
“Worst relationship mistake you can make”
When I look at the most destructive behaviours couples experience. Understanding this specific pattern can help them avoid many common relationship