Below is a basic list of 15 behaviours that couples need to move away from if they wish to keep their connection alive. In the coming days I'm
“I think my marriage is over, but I’m fearful”
Many couples are suffering year after year unsure what to do. They have so much invested in their marriage but they cannot escape a fundamental
Emotional triggers – time to take control
When a person is out of control of their own emotional triggers they can blame others for the feelings they are creating. With a shift of
Miserable Marriage…
What is the point of being married when married life is so miserable? Isn’t the point of a marriage to magnify the feelings we like experiencing?
“Don’t think of an elephant”!
Have you ever noticed that it’s very challenging to take something out of your mind especially if that event is painful? I asked you to not think
“Not equipped” – Part 2
Yesterday I set the scene that couples are not naturally designed to understand how to solve their marital problems. Today I want to expand a
“Not equipped for the job”
I meet some of the loveliest people in the most horrible situations. These people are smart, bright, creative people with a good heart at their core,
The Joyless
It’s true that many people become addicted to their unhappiness or lack of joy. They are addicted to meeting their needs through a search for what is
Reinvestment Strategy – Repatterning Couples For Success
I work with some of the toughest cases of marital crisis globally. These are the cases most people have almost given up on - even the professional
“I always want it my way”!
The way couples are trying to get their needs met is killing their connection and making it unlikely their partner will ever want to meet their
“Trying to fix a marriage”?
So you want to fix your marriage or a least discover what is possible. So is the correct process to work out how we got here and what went
Changing needs are crippling marriages
What do you do when a relationship has felt happy for years and then suddenly a negative change for no reason starts to take hold. What do you do