I asked this lady when was the last time she felt she was her true self in her marriage. Over the phone I could hear her tears through the silence
“Family Values?”
I see this message of "Family Values" usually floating around in the press or magazines, even couples mention it in sessions. I always wonder if
“Can I fix my marriage alone”?
Dear Stephen: My wife and I are having terrible marriage problems, I cannot get her to come for help, she thinks it will be a waste of time. We
“How I see my husband changes”
So I was working with this lady last year, and they were entering the early stages of marital crisis. I asked her this question to get to the bottom
“Why don’t we know this?”
My clients are bright successful people. Yet the sentence I hear almost every week is "why don't we know this?" I asked myself the same question as
A Thought for Sunday
What if your thoughts are not you? Have you ever considered this? Well many years ago this was news to me! This was not something I would have ever
“What are you defending yourself for”?
So I'm sat with a couple who I've watched for about two minutes. Sometimes it's good to let a couple do their normal destructive patterns in front
The mindset shift
Making a marriage successful takes a shift of mindset. The thinking that creates problems is not the thinking that will solve them. What we are
“Sitting on the fence”
Many people have found themselves stuck in a marriage that is not working for them. They know they are unhappy and have been for a while. They
“Where is your integrity?”
INTEGRITY: The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles, critical for any marriage. What do we think of people who are not
True Story of Regret
This is a true story of a gentleman that searched for help and thought he knew best... This gentleman and his wife took me up on my free call. It's
No one knows what you need!
When a person's needs are consistently not met by their partner it can be enough for that person to want leave their marriage. This doesn't happen