Love is an action, not a feeling How many people say I don't feel love for my partner anymore. How many say I love you, but I'm not in love with
Healthy sex life?
Couples who want a consistent healthy sex life need to understand there is "AN ORDER" needed to keep that sexual energy alive, especially in long-term
“You only get one life!”
Many years ago I was told the story of “The Boiled Frog” you may have heard it. It's the kind of story that can start to wake a person up to
“Why are you not helping your sister?”
Today is a short story about how the sexes communicate very differently and how the disconnect can cause upset that can grow out of control. I'm
Communication problems
"What do you actually hear when I speak?" A message from a frustrated husband. Communication is complex because each person will use very different
“This is why couples work fails!”
In today's post, I'm going to share why couples are struggling to solve their marriage problems either on their own or with professional help. You
Separation – Good or Bad Idea?
A common question I receive is about my view on separation, can it work to help a couple reconnect or is it really the end if we do it? It's a
A Thought for Sunday 😨
An interesting discovery about "relationship fears" is they can become self-fulfilling. Imagine a person who is worried that they are not enough
“I wished I’d never married you!!!”
I'm sat with a couple and they are describing an argument that sparked in her an uncontrollable rage. The gentleman told me his wife ended up
What happens next?
A husband and his wife are in a car driving down the motorway, the husband is the one driving. The wife see's a sign saying motorway
Why is our love dying?
Couples are struggling to understand how the love they once shared has changed and they are now edging towards separation or divorce. Many of
The Madness of Reactive Couples
Reactive couples in volume are leading each other into misery in their marriage. I spend my life helping couples to wake up to their reactive