An interesting discovery about "relationship fears" is they can become self-fulfilling. Imagine a person who is worried that they are not enough
“I wished I’d never married you!!!”
I'm sat with a couple and they are describing an argument that sparked in her an uncontrollable rage. The gentleman told me his wife ended up
What happens next?
A husband and his wife are in a car driving down the motorway, the husband is the one driving. The wife see's a sign saying motorway
Why is our love dying?
Couples are struggling to understand how the love they once shared has changed and they are now edging towards separation or divorce. Many of
The Madness of Reactive Couples
Reactive couples in volume are leading each other into misery in their marriage. I spend my life helping couples to wake up to their reactive
37 Marriage Mistakes to Avoid
Below is a list of mistakes that can lead a marriage to disconnect. The list is in no particular order yet all are critical to understand if love and
5 Steps to Repair an Emotional Connection
Imagine this: I have two people who come to me with one core problem. They both agree they have emotional connection problems. So if they agree
A Thought for Sunday ❤️
A lady in her 70s was talking to a young woman who was curious about what it took to make a marriage really work. This lady had been married for
A critical foundation for a marriage to work
This foundation is so critical that every relationship will struggle without it. So, when I was considering my life and its direction many years
Affair addiction
So when a neurosurgeon stepped into my office due to his affair my opening line was... “Well, we are going to have an interesting
Why do people have affairs?
So this is an interesting question because one answer is due to problems in the marriage and the other answer is because they can. So there are
Why affairs that end in marriage rarely work
When I looked into the statistics of divorce what was interesting is that second marriages had a far higher divorce rate than first marriages. When