Many people are "walking on eggshells" in their marriage and it's killing their connection. Whenever a person tells me they are walking on
A thought for Sunday
If you could choose to live your dream life would you choose to have a go? Before you start reading this post this isn't a quest for how do we get
Marriages are failing because…
What is it that makes so many marriages fail? Many couples fall into the trap of these common problems. Below are 6 significant reasons couples are
“I’ve lost who I am in my marriage”
I asked this lady when was the last time she felt she was her true self in her marriage. Over the phone I could hear her tears through the silence
“Family Values?”
I see this message of "Family Values" usually floating around in the press or magazines, even couples mention it in sessions. I always wonder if
“Can I fix my marriage alone”?
Dear Stephen: My wife and I are having terrible marriage problems, I cannot get her to come for help, she thinks it will be a waste of time. We
“How I see my husband changes”
So I was working with this lady last year, and they were entering the early stages of marital crisis. I asked her this question to get to the bottom
“Why don’t we know this?”
My clients are bright successful people. Yet the sentence I hear almost every week is "why don't we know this?" I asked myself the same question as
A Thought for Sunday
What if your thoughts are not you? Have you ever considered this? Well many years ago this was news to me! This was not something I would have ever
“What are you defending yourself for”?
So I'm sat with a couple who I've watched for about two minutes. Sometimes it's good to let a couple do their normal destructive patterns in front
The mindset shift
Making a marriage successful takes a shift of mindset. The thinking that creates problems is not the thinking that will solve them. What we are
“Sitting on the fence”
Many people have found themselves stuck in a marriage that is not working for them. They know they are unhappy and have been for a while. They