So one of the challenges couples face is their ability to connect emotionally. Emotional connection is a critical foundational element that's needed
“Will I ever fancy my husband again?” 
This is one of those messages I keep receiving so I thought I'd help you to see what I see. If you translate that problem into my world she would
Couples are repelling each other constantly.
Women are wanting a better connection yet her behaviours repel him, men want more sexual connections unaware he is killing her desire to see him as
“Sexual Attraction”
So how do you keep that important energy in a relationship alive year after year? Yesterday's post told a story of how he can kill her sexual desire,
How he kills her sexual desire!
So this gentleman turns up in a session and, for ten minutes, lists all the awful qualities about his wife; here is a sample of this
“Never try to change your partner”
I'm going to share why trying to change your partner is likely to kill your connection, your attraction for each other and negatively affect your sex
“She wants to leave the marriage”
So many men come to me totally confused. His wife has communicated that she doesn't love him and wants out of the marriage, and this time, she means
“What’s the meaning of this”?
One of the fundamental skills that are lacking in almost every client I see is the ability to attach an accurate meaning to their partner's words and
Advice for Controlling Relationships
A consistent theme I see with couples in crisis who are struggling to keep their relationship healthy is when one or both people feel the need to
“It’s a binary game! Your connection is either getting better or it’s not”!
When relationship problems become complicated, couples need simple yet powerful strategies to help them out of their problems. So when the couple