Virtually every person that comes for help has made their partner responsible for the state of their relationship. Someone in this common model of
Badly Patterned Relationships
Are you in a bad relationship or a bad pattern? Understanding the answer to this question can liberate a person to get out of a toxic relationship
“I was in tears…”
'Initially I went to Stephen with a sole focus on saving my marriage as my husband wanted a divorce whilst I felt I could not let go of the 14 years'
“Taking control of your life”
The number one change that has made the difference for my clients is to change what they are trying to control. People in unsuccessful
“Their breakthrough”!
What is it that can make a difference for a couple in crisis? What did this couple have to know to stop their divorce? This couple suffered from a
How to fix a relationship when one person is losing feelings
I receive a common message through my new client application forms: "My partner has lost their feelings for me". These are men and women on their
“Why Suffer”?
Why do couples suffer in their marriage? Are they the wrong fit?Have they naturally grown apart?Do they have a problem they can't get over?Do they
“36 Principles for Success”!
What must couples know before they decide to throw in the towel? A significant number of couples are in crisis because they don’t know how to bring
IMPORTANT: “Your partner isn’t like you”!
Understanding just this point will go a long way to help people understand why they are struggling or going round in circles. Everyone is different
“Expect problems”!
So a couple in their early 40s book an initial consultation because they know their marriage is failing. They tell me something is wrong with their
“You can’t trust your brain until you’ve conditioned it”!
What happens when a person has doubt, especially doubt about their relationship? What this doubt creates is a person living a story that helps them
“Tortured by the past”!
What do you do when a past problem from years before stays alive in your marriage? One of the daily challenges I see in my sessions is a person