Most people I meet who are in a marital crisis are out of control of their emotions. Understandably, the potential loss of a marriage and a family
“It’s a binary game! Your connection is either getting better or it’s not”!
When relationship problems become complicated, couples need simple yet powerful strategies to help them out of their problems. So when the couple
People are leaving perfectly good relationships only to make the same mistake all over again.
Today I'm going to share a secret, what these people are not seeing and how their mind wrongly convinces them they are right. These secrets are
Who is right?
Have you ever noticed that when two people in a relationship are in conflict, they are battling to convince the other person their version of events
“A Wise Old Man’s Decision about his Marriage”
So I was chatting with this gentleman in his seventies. As we talked about our lives, he opened his wallet to show me a picture of his wife. The
“The 6 Shifts Needed to Rebuild Connection & Trust after a Marital Crisis!”
Rebuilding connection and trust is a process. Couples who are potentially on the edge of divorce will have taken a few years to get to this point
“Resentment Stacking”
When a persons’ marriage is NOT turning out to be the way they hoped, they are going to start stacking resentments towards their partner. This has the
Are you Masculine or Feminine?
I asked this lady if she thought her husband was masculine or feminine. I asked this because her answer would lead me to what I needed to do to help
“Worst relationship mistake you can make”
When I look at the most destructive behaviours couples experience. Understanding this specific pattern can help them avoid many common relationship
The Buck Stops Here?
Virtually every person that comes for help has made their partner responsible for the state of their relationship. Someone in this common model of
“I was in tears…”
'Initially I went to Stephen with a sole focus on saving my marriage as my husband wanted a divorce whilst I felt I could not let go of the 14 years'
“Expect problems”!
So a couple in their early 40s book an initial consultation because they know their marriage is failing. They tell me something is wrong with their