Women are wanting a better connection yet her behaviours repel him, men want more sexual connections unaware he is killing her desire to see him as
“How WIVES are helping HUSBANDS to reject them!”
Today's post is about what men are telling me every day that helps them to want to leave her. In many cases, she has no idea this is how he
“Sexual Attraction”
So how do you keep that important energy in a relationship alive year after year? Yesterday's post told a story of how he can kill her sexual desire,
How he kills her sexual desire!
So this gentleman turns up in a session and, for ten minutes, lists all the awful qualities about his wife; here is a sample of this
“We never have to worry about our relationship problems again!”
The short version of yesterday's post is this. If a person's thinking is leading them to constantly disconnect from who they are in their
Life by design – The ultimate formula for married couples
Today is about "life by design". It's the process of designing and creating your relationship and life the way it should be. It's the starting
The Warrior & The Princess
When couples don't understand that the other person cannot see the world the same as they do, they assume the other is being difficult, mean or
“He told her she was too fat!”
When working with couples in crisis you are going to see a lot of distorted behaviours and after nearly 20 years of doing this, I have seen and heard
How Emotional Patterns Destroy Marriages
The challenge we all face is on some level we all have some kind of unhelpful pattern that we learned growing up. It's nothing to be ashamed
NEVER let your partner enter a “CRITICAL NEEDS DEFICIT!” – Mini post
Who knew each person on a planet is driven by different and very specific emotional needs? When these needs are not met couples will always experience
“The Path from Happiness to Divorce”
Who knew there is a well-defined path couples will follow from their first meeting and falling in love to ending up divorced! In fact, many couples
“Why do you feel qualified to be his judge?” – Mini Post
It's rare I allow a couple to engage in conflict in my sessions. I don't see the point in them paying me to watch them argue, they can do that at home