I hear of so many people stuck in relationship challenges, and they don’t know what to do.
For some, their partner doesn’t want help, or they don’t want their partner to participate for some reason.
Some want to win a partner back, and some want help on their own to discover if they are in the right or wrong relationship.
These people are usually emotionally exhausted, some have lost trust in their own thinking.
They don’t want to make a mistake, but cannot see a way forward either.
Making life-changing decisions is hard, and for many, it’s tough when children are involved.
In these situations where I am only working on one person, the question is twofold.
How do you take control back and gain clarity?
The clarity is in the knowledge and the application of proving to yourself if you bring the very best you can to the table, what happens?
Firstly you can’t be any more than the best of you.
Secondly, it will feel far better to take action, especially if that action is leading you to the right outcome.
With the right knowledge and help, you can learn the steps to getting the best out of yourself.
When you bring this to your partner with the knowledge of how to trigger them positively, you’ll start to see the truth of your dynamic.
People do make reactive changes when their partner changes their behaviours and presents them with the right energy for them.
Most people in relationships that don’t work have lost control of themselves and don’t know how to bring the best to their partner, so they bring the wrong energy and negatively trigger them.
If you learn the skill to trigger your partner positively, you’ll discover the answer to an important question.
Can I influence my partner positively?
If you can’t, then the relationship can’t grow, which could have been one of the root problems all along.
Many people have had enough and are taking steps alone to see what is possible for them to gain clarity and truth.